Forget every pickup line you have ever read

Drop The Overly Sexual Creep In You

You wanna grab that ass before even talking to her – you can see she is not wearing any panties as her ass outline is clear through her thin classy silk dress. Patience young padawan!

Your Mood

Prepare your mood before you go out – this means you should be carbed up and exercised that day, feeling healthy and happy is a huge part of this. Dont go out after a long stressful day at work feeling angry and twitchy hoping that 3 shots of rum will pick your mood up.

Lets see how NOT to pick up women!

Women have to get to know someone before they will have sex with them.

Slut shaming and rape fears:

It appears it’s not just social conditioning but a real fear that a strange guy could be untrustworthy. To understand this you have to put yourself in a womens shoes. In most cases you could overpower them physically so sex is not just an emotional risk but a life threatening one if they choose the wrong mate. Risk is much higher for women, STDs and pregnancy loom, guys can and do just leave the scene.

Also realize that women are great at instantly determining who they can trust. So if your a guy who doesn’t have a high level of personal integrity your really damaging your success rate. Karma Bitch.

 

Trust

So we have established that women will say no to the straight up question of “will you have sex with me”. But we also know that guys are taking women home for one night stands all the time. What are they doing differently? They take women on a journey through a period of hours such that at the end of the night they feel totally at ease and trusting of the man she just met. He has a trusting charismatic personality, he makes her laugh, he establishes trust rapidly but without jumping forward in great steps. Think of it like climbing a ladder, you take the first rung then the second, then the third. This trust building is interspersed with confident flirtation and physical touch along with humor and social proof.

 

So going back to your horny frame of mind you were in with the urge to smash her no panty wearing ass… You still want to do that but now understand that you have to climb the ladder of trust before any kind of funny business is going to take place.

It’s a myth that women are not sexual beings, the Dildo industry is big business! Women crave sex, some women have sex much more than some guys, it’s just the kind of sexual activity women crave is different.

 


 

Gender Differences in Receptivity To Sexual Offers: Elaine Hatfeild, PhD, http://www.elainehatfield.com/79.pdf

Women are eager for love and commitment while men are eager for sexual activity. Both men and women were willing to go on a date as one has the ability to assess the probability that a loving relationship could occur.

 

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