So what’s a booty call?

You call someone for just sex, nothing else. It is even less then Friends with benefits which at least assumes a friendly relation.

Basically, think unpaid hooker.

For some people they wouldn’t mind being someones booty call – for guys a botty call is a good thing because there is no strings sex involved.

But the problem with booty call is that it’s used to describe the USE of someone without respect.

So even if a women said… yeh he was my booty call last saturday to her friends she is most likely reffering to you in a negative way.

The booty call has a negtive stigma attached to it.

It’s not friends with benefits or casual dating where there is actually assumed trust and friendship involved. Booty call is just using an old friendship for sex without any intent in the future of seeing them again.

Ex girlfriends who get dumped often end up being booty calls for awhile. They are in the hope that their ex bf wants to get back with them… they later find out they were a booty call until he found someone else… A tough reality for anyone to come to.

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Others refer to it as simply a no harm done casual sex date.

A purely sexual liaison

I think unpaid hooker is much too harsh!

Both people are obviously consenting to the sex so they are both getting something out of the interaction.

You don’t want the booty call label but it’s not all bad – Let’s call it one rung below the one night stand… except it’s closer to friends with benefits. This is because the booty call suggests a prior relationship.

You can’t just call up anyone for a booty call – it’s someone that you have had sex with before.

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