Lets get a few things cleared up first
There ARE women in your area right now that are searching for sexual partners… YOU could be the guy that they email and flirt with and you could be having sex right now with this women. Women are bored and sexually motivated just like guys are.
If you want to find sex you have a number of options in front of you. The best option for you will depend on a number of factors:
- How much effort you want to put into it
- What you want out of the sexual experience
- What your willing to give
- Who you want to meet
- Where you want to meet
- How quickly you want to find sex
I mean sex is an inevitable part of life – it’s going to happen eventually once you start creating relationships with the opposite sex.
The kinds of relationships you form will influence the sex and intimacy you have. Some relationships are based on deep trust love and affection. Other relationships are fleeting lusty expressions of sexual desire.
You could be neither or be interested in a mixture of both. So before you go asking the world wide web for sex first ask yourself…
What do I want out of the experience?
What do I have to lose and how much am I willing to risk?
Remember sex is fleeting but true love for someone lasts forever. If you can combine the two you will have something very special.
OK now that you have that sorted out let’s move onto the next step…
Finding a sexual partner…
There are a number of options for you: Obviously both of them are going to involve you searching for a member of the opposite sex. Whether they be man or women is purely up to you but we are going to assume your after women…
You can also try free dating sites… Craig list personal ads… social media sites… (face book) but none of these are recommended for safety and relation reasons.
IT’S ALL ABOUT INTENT BABY
You know that each user is looking for casual sex so there is no mucking around and wondering whether they single or interested.
In your attempts to find sex do not lose sight of why – You may be trying to satisfy a brief sexual drive or you may be trying to fill a void, feel connected, feel loved, try something new, meet new people, search for excitement…
Find Sex – 2 Options
So your looking to find sex… You are online so you understand that online dating could be a great option for you. But your unsure of whether these dating sites really work or not. Your sceptic about laying down money to a site that you do not trust.
Finding casual friends is hard enough these days with all the hustle bustle , and stress’s of life.
You only really have a few hours on a Saturday night to meet women and this bar scene sure is crowded! Well thankfully there is a better way to find sex… I understand that it’s not just sex that your after but a heightened life experience however let’s just stick to the sex for now.
Most people get very intimidated by the whole casual personals scene which is quite understandable.
It’s not exactly a savoury looking site however you will be surprised at the men and women that join… they are regular people with regular jobs. This is not some crazy fetish niche site this has become a mainstream thing.
Anyway if your not interested in going all out in search of sex online there are some intermediately steps you can take to ease yourself into the game as it were.
Sites like be naughty allow you to be discreet and “nice” but at the same time bring the thunder and look for women that are interested in casual encounters and one night stands.
Be naughty and even cupid to some extend allow you to find sex online in the normal way – that is you increase your social circle and get to know singles on non sexual grounds first and then once your friends you start dating.
Of course this all takes time – the intent of many women on non sexual dating sites is very much for long term relationships. This makes it hard for a guy looking for sex to be honest about his intentions.
He wouldn’t mind a long term relationship at some stage but right now all you really want to do is get your end off.. What’s a guy meant to do?
Well if you have any morals you would accept the truth and be honest about what your looking for. This is why it inevitably comes back to casual personals dating. Everyone is their on common grounds and thus nobody get’s hurt… much.
Emotions with always get in the way when sex is involved but for now it’s the best option you have.