Casual sex and the ease with which contact can be made with the opposite sex online is encouraging. Singles and attached women are flocking to casual dating sites by the millions. But can we create a community where all of this can be done free?

Casual encounters are being set up online via sites like plenty of fish. But the site is geared more toward somewhat serious relationships than casual short term dating.

Money for nothing and your chicks for free certainly is a fantasy and dream of many men…

Free sex basically means that you don’t actually have to spend any money in the process of seducing and finding women. Time is money of course but you would take into account that the time spent with women is enjoyable and therefore a leisure activity.

#2 Free Sex Options

You have a couple of systems available for getting free sex:

#1

One of them would be to develop great street and day game… A guy like paul janka should be able to help you out with this. Basically you get a bunch of numbers by approaching women in the street and call them up later. This involves much practice and confidence on your part.

The short term results may be flaky and uncertain but long term the effort put in will brush off on all aspects of your life. The reason why this is a free system is that it’s just you and your personality – your not expected to buy her drinks… just impress her with your charm. Once the cell # is attained you have the personal line which you can use to build on the trust already established.

This approach requires you to be as DIRECT as possible. You go in get her number and get out within a few minutes.

#2

The other system would be to get these same numbers from women that are activly seeking this sort of encounter anyway. This way you don’t feel like your intruding on anyones life plus you dont have to deal with rejection face to face. Some say your hiding behind the emotional wall that is your computer screen…

I say your using an emerging and now dominant technology to your advantage.

So to compare:

• Day game is great to find hot women’s numbers on the street.
• Free casual internet dating is a great additional tool to add to your cell# getting arsenal.

The Free Sex Pitfalls:

The trouble is that most of these sites require a monthly fee and the ratio of guys to girls is usually not in your favour. Plus there are many sites like rudefinder or upforit that are reportedly fake profiles or use automated responses.

Be Naughty and the friend finder network are good examples of casual dating sites that have shown promise. There is also okcupid, oasis active, pof and even facebook.

Free sex requires you to make the first contact inside a free environment… it comes down to connecting with guys and girls in your area. There is no point in chatting to a girl in a different state to you if you dont plan to actually travel there one day.

Dating.PullingLadies.com was set up to help those looking for a cheaper way to find casual encounters. A sexual liberation… A free tool for the masses… A quality alternative to the currently expensive casual sex dating sites available… A place where you can chat live to REAL singles in your area totally free… A user moderated environment… With blogs forums and groups.

Is It Really Free?

You have to admit that your time is money – and the time it takes you to filter through craigslist ads to find a women that could be fake may not be worth your time.

This is why paid sites are often worth the monthly charge because they can afford staff to moderate and remove users who are not playing by the rules.

As a general rule the quality of users within a safe, paid moderated environment will be better than a free environment with major networks like myspace and facebook being obvious exceptions.

If like most of us your on a tight budget but your loins are still screaming at you to get your sex life going these free casual dating sites could be worth your time.

It only takes a few minutes to skim through profiles with a filter of:

location, age, intent, orientation

before you find someone that catches your eye. Then the fun starts… your then able to establish a relationship via IM and share photos with the REAL possibility of meeting up for casual sex.

The very idea that all of this can now be done free (with a site that has a big enough following) is an exiting proposition.

So to cut a long story shorter: Free sex online is a very real possibility if you have accounts at all the right places and if you get a little lucky.

I would suggest that you don’t put all of your eggs in one basket on this one yet: Get out there and have some fun screwing up some approaches with women you don’t know in the bar or on the street.  There is enough free information out there on youtube to help you refine your personality and get your confidence and charm up enough to seduce women above 6-7…

You should be aiming to get a girlfriend of 9 or 10 in the long run.

Are free sex sites the place for this? 

NO

But, they are fun locations online to be a little naughty and experiment with your darker side. They are open environments with which contact information can be shared and encounters can be set up free of charge.

And if you so happen to meet a personality that enthralls and captivates you… your casual sexual relationship may just flourish into something much more than sex.