So your looking for sex: the plight of many if not most men… You will notice that almost all guys out in the weekend are their to achieve some sort of sexual satisfaction.
Whether it be a conversation with a women a hug a kiss or even a full blown one night stand.
If you are in the process of “looking for sex” you might want to realign your thoughts toward the virtual scene.
You see there is a process that men who get sex use…
It doesn’t involve sitting in the corner of bars or drinking beer at the pub. The men who go looking for sex and get it are those who are present and interacting with many women at a time.
They don’t throw their eggs in one basket and hope like hell she’s up for a good time.
They are always socially present and aware of what is going on around them. Looking for sex does not involve being predatory or going out on the “hunt” it involves communicating and connecting with the female emotion.
Turns out there is a new way for those looking for sex to find it quickly and easily. There are sites online that devote their efforts to helping your find local sex without the fear of rejection.
You are now able to get in touch with the right women at the right time. Rather than playing the guessing game that is the elusive bar scene add virtual sex profiles to your arsenal and get the contacts that will guarantee you a good night out.
You can arrange to meet the women that you have contacted at the very bar that you go to anyway…
But there is a big difference – now you know her intentions. She has already been introduced to you through online chat and now it’s just a matter of physical escalation offline.
This is a MAJOR hurdle for most guys… Being able to jump straight to flirting with a single women that matches your sexual preferences and personality is a real eye opener.
No longer do you have to sit in the corner of a bar and guess which women are up for casual sex or any sex for that matter..
It’s exiting to know that there are women in your area that are up for casual encounters.
It’s exiting to know that you can contact them right now and organise meetups and sexually adventurous nights out.
Be aware that when you are looking for sex offline or online there may be hidden motives and assumptions that will differ between parties involved. You need to make it quite clear what your intentions are.
The women you are chatting with so freely and openly might have other ideas about where this “casual” relationship is going.
Many men report that women are unable (in face they are unable themselves) to avoid falling for their casual partner.
This is not a bad thing , in fact quite natural indeed however simply note that when you are looking for sex you might find yourself finding love instead… as well. Is this not the natural order of things anyway? Let the process carry itself out without resistance.
If something comes of the relationship that you were not expecting let it happen… if it is positive.
So if you are interested in finding contacts via the virtual dating scene and then transitioning this interaction offline I would suggest you look into casual dating sites. It allows you to cut through the clutter and get the contacts of women who ARE actually interested in seeing you.
You stop wasting time by filtering by age ethnicity sexual taste and intent amongst many others. This sort of information could not be pooled and sorted offline. It’s just not how human social interaction works.
Of course if you have your ways of finding sex that work for you then keep doing what your doing: e.g. getting very drunk and dancing for hours until you find a women that might be interested…
But if your tired of the work and rejection that is required to find the women that matches your current mindset and values try adding a virtual friend finder to your arsenal of dating tools.
Note: I am hinting that it’s not a complete solution to your sexual satisfaction but it’s a great way to shorten the time and effort required to meet that right type of women.