The idea is that everyone on the site is under the same assumption that serious relationships are not on the cards…
Inside a sex dating site anything goes, all niche interests and sex interests are welcomed and open contact is promoted.
You always have the power in the conversation because you have the option of blocking users and not replying.
Sex dating is distinctly different from serious dating (eharmony)
Serious dating runs under the intent of marriage and long term relationships – much effort is put into scientifically matching two people.
Sex dating is simply an open network of singles and attached sexually motivated people.
You search and filter based on your needs – you get to know another person based on their profile and the email correspondence you have on the site.
If you choose to meet up offline that is your choice and the site then has no control over your safety and is thus not responsible for you.
Sex dating is 100% sexually motivated – there may be motivation to find your right sexual match (getiton.com) or motivation to be anonymous (no strings attached) but for the most part sex daitng members are open and honest about wanting to find fun emotionally healthy singles.
Of course your sexually motivated date could turn serious when you realize you have more in common. But that’s usually no the point of the meetup.
Modern day sex dating flips the usual boy meets girl scenario on it’s head.
It’s by no means seedy or underground – members who choose to find others are just in a point in their life where serious relationships don’t fit.
They still want emotion passion respect and fun, just not all of the arguments and expectations that come with serious relationships.
Sex dating is about having fun with many different people – it attempts to focus on an open and honest user intent.
It allows you to create and develop relationships with like minding people in your area – swinging groups and fetish communities area already actively meeting in the weekends – you just need to join.
Sex dating sites allow you to set up your own groups where people can join and share information such as meet up dates , photos and stories.
The term dating is really rather false – because you don’t date online at all – you meet people and interact with them in the hope of meeting up offline. Usually the interactions inside forums and blogs is enjoyable enough however when you meet up with someone in your area that you get on with well – the magic really happens.
So it’s not really dating until you suggest an offline meeting – all of the dating happens offline – It’s really a matchmaking and personals ad directory.
All of the power of sex dating is allowing you to get the number of someone close-by that happens to have the same motivations as you.
Nothing to complex about the whole situation it just relies on you having a profile that attracts attention.
So long as your online often enough or email enough singles you will meet people. Whether you get on with them offline is a whole different story.
Video interaction such as skype allows users of causal sex personals sites to interact on a much more personal level. I would advise you if you feel the need to do a google chat or skype call with your potential sexual partner.
It might take some of the mystery out of the blind date offline but it’s worth it for the safety.
Here are some interesting quotes from an article from NZ about the dating culture where nz women have on average 20 sexual partners (source)
“There’s no dating culture any more.” In candid interviews about their sexual experiences some of the women who are all in their twenties felt empowered by having sex and wanted to celebrate and enjoy it.
“If the first-up sex wasn’t any good women weren’t prepared to waste their time progressing the relationship”
No dating thanks… just the sex… Is this the new way of dating? Can you really find that much out from sex? Apparently that’s all we need and one night stands are on the rise. The empowerment of women and the easing of standards and judgement is enabling women to have multiple sexual partners and not be labelled as would have occurred in the past.
Perhaps female sexual behavior is strongly correlated to how male’s judge female promiscuity. If having many sexual partners before marriage greatly reduces the chance of a successful relationship as a result of the slut label then of course women would be weary of sleeping around.
Now it seems it’s not necessarily the women who have increased in confidence and libido but he restrictions that held them back have been lifted.
This is of course on occurring in some cultures but thanks to sex dating sites men and women are hooking up more and enjoying the sexual freedom they were born to enjoy.
Examples of sex dating online: