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Now is this really a reality that occurs on the internet or some sort of made up dream of men? Are there really attractive blonds trawling the web for anonymous sexual encounters? The dating site owners would like to have you believing that you can get tail in two seconds just by using their service…
Is this fantasy a men becoming a reality that is accessible to every man?
You might be frustrated with offline dating despite knowing a few “great lines” or certain techniques that you learnt from the gurus. Yet that blond still takes no notice and your patience is wearing thin.
Noticing other guys effortlessly attracting women while your best efforts are laughed at…
Starting to think that the women you seek are out of you league…
Hoping there is another way to bed women other than offline game because you have little…
Desperately seeking an easy way to find attractive women
Well there MIGHT be another way: That’s for you to discover for yourself. I’v got to be straight up with you hear and reveal what really goes on inside the sexual online dating sites.
As for the previous question: are there really hot women looking to have sex with men online?
I would have to say… YES there are
But this question needs more explanation.
First of all “sexy” is relative to your point of view – some women are sexy to some men and some are not. If you are an average to poor looking bloke then you would be happy with a middle of the road looking women because even with her you would be doing well. If you are a successful man with great looks and confidence you likely have no need to using dating sites anyway.
So attractiveness is relative
Second: are women ACTIVELY searching for SEX and are they actually HOT?
For this I would also have to say yes but very few.
On the whole the women looking for quick flings are average looking 30+ women that will take what they can get. It’s very unlikely that you going to find a young women that’s fine in all areas ready to get in and out and never call back.
You might be looking for that sort of thing but I would suggest you change your mind set or forever be the lonely guy who only gets 40 year old dating scraps left over from many a man.
Most young women are looking for something much deeper and relationship oriented.
Your chances of finding that diamond in the rough that’s also into no strings is going to be tough going or at least take some time. The ease with which you find no strings dating will be determined by both your attractiveness and your willingness to stoop below your normal standards.
Sites such as fling, be naughty, up for it, and even plenty of fish, girls date for free, cupid and other sites are all adequate online dating sites where you might find that relationship your looking for.
Having said all that I still think that a real spiritual connection and love for another women is what you should really be looking for. You will never experience real sexual “enlightenment” until you ditch the craziness of the filthy one nighters and find true love.
It’s a process and might not be their yet but I suggest you take it into consideration and when you are ready put some real effort into finding someone special.