Oasis active has just released it’s new members community which allows you to interact with others online…

here is an example of a thread

http://community.oasis.com/topic/7-are-you-shy-to-be-on-a-dating-site/

one of the members suggests

Of course it’s not about convenience, guys just have no balls to talk to random girls. And girls freak out because they are not really used to such attention. Old fashioned way meeting via friends. Really sucks.

Which is sad but all to true…

Here is another thread regarding what women want…

http://community.oasis.com/topic/35-what-women-want/

once again surprise surprise it’s respect and being and honest and open guy but this doesn’t mean that you have to be boring… use a little mystery to spice up the conversation.