Perhaps the most important aspect of finding a girlfriend or just locating single women in general is location. You can be the best pick up artist around and have great communication skills with women but if your hanging around an old people you won’t have much luck.
There’s no question of the difficulty in striking up conversation out of nothing with a women you know nothing about. It’s hard because it’s unnatural. I recommend you find the niches, those pots of gold are where 95% of all the single women hang out. I suggest that you go where the fishing is easy, rather than making it tough on yourself. This way conversation comes natural and the women often approach YOU due to the lack of guys around.
Your single women niche might be unique to you so don’t be alarmed if you keep turning up to a ballet class and enjoying it.
The likes of yoga or dance class are perfect niches where single women are active and most will be attractive. You are forced to interact with women in dance class and there is a strong sexual undertone involved in dancing.
Don’t try and force a single women niche on yourself. If dance is not your thing and you just don’t feel comfortable their then stop going! There are plenty of fishing holes out their but just keep in mind that it will be a bit weird at first as it’s new to you.
The real reason for going to these special single girl rich areas is to become part of a new community.
Church is an example of a great community which brings people together. If you are not religious try joining a sports club or mixed gender social sports team.
Book clubs always have loads of women if reading is a past time.
Gardening or flower shows are great if you’re at that age.
Depending on the beach, surf clubs are often great ways to at least be in the presence of attractive girls sun bathing.
The key is to integrate into the community because you are passionate about similar things. Connection and intimacy with single women will that you inevitably have your eye on is only natural.
This method of finding and dating single women might not be glamorous but it works. It takes the pressure out of approaching and talking to women by putting you in your natural environment.
This way you are confident and feel at ease talking about passions rather than feeling pressured to perform in unnatural environments. This might take a little bit of work and you may need to take on a new hobby but you will thank me for it later. Everyone should be taking on new hobbies every 6 months so now that you have motivation to do so it should be easy.
So now that you have decided to use special single women niches to your advantage you are going to need to choose your location. Get online and find local events, look in magazines and newspapers for functions and locations in your area.
Write down a few upcoming events that interest you, pluck up the courage to just go out and do it. You will be surprised at the reception you get joining new clubs and attending new shows.
The benefits that come from this type of dating are endless. Apart from it feeling totally natural, the connections and relationships you build during these fun, location based adventures will last a lifetime. Who knows you might even find your life long partner at your next social event.