You’ll select who you and what you are looking for first. You can select man, woman, couple, group, or transsexual. You’ll also enter your email address. You’ll enter your birth date and location. You’ll select an username and password.
Next, you’ll select your sexual orientation, body type, marital status, ethnicity, and role. You’ll write a headline and a description of yourself.
Once you’ve signed up, you’ll be taken to the premium membership page. You can select either a gold or silver membership.
A silver membership includes:
- View and contact members
- Access to video intros
- Partial access to blogs, groups, and magazine
A gold membership includes:
- Show up first in search results
- Be first to contact new members
- Full access to blogs, groups, and magazines
- Access to extra large photos
You can add extras to your membership as well. Standard Contacts will allow standard members to contact you and view your full profile for free. You can also choose to highlight your profile, or get access to BDSM movies.
You’ll be asked the standard profile questions about your physical attributes. Men will also be asked about the length and width of their endowment, and if they are circumcised. Women will be asked for their bust measurements.
You’ll also see the standard profile questions about your beliefs and lifestyle, including religion, occupation, and children. You’ll be asked if you smoke, drink, or do drugs.
Other questions pertain to BDSM. These include how often you think about the alternative lifestyle, your experience level, dress, demeanor, and whether you practice safe sex.
There’s a wide range of additional questions as well. Categories include BDSM fundamentals, Scenes and play, sexual activities, dreams and goals, work and living environment, and more.
You can also take a personality test and a purity test. Your profile can be as minimal or as extensive as you like. However, the more information that’s included in your profile, the easier it is for people to decide if they are compatible with you. You can upload photos as well as videos to your profile.
You’ll also need to set your Cupid Preferences. These will determine who you see on the site, and they can be used to filter messages as well. You can select man, woman, couple, or trans. You’ll also choose a range for age and distance. You can add ethnicity, body type, sexual orientation, and marital status. You can choose all that you are interested in for each selection.
You’ll also want to select your kinks. You’ll find many kinky behaviors, including candle wax, ass play, bondage, and branding. For each item that you are interested in, you’ll select curious about, into, or can’t live without. You’ll also select whether you are interested in giving, receiving, watching, or everything to do with it.
Free members can conduct a basic search. Premium members can conduct an advanced search. An advanced search can include anything found in your profile, making for an extremely detailed search.
You can also search by Kinks. Choose a kink you are interested in, and then you can narrow your results. You can narrow results by location, role, gender, and age.
My Matches is another way to find other members. You’ll see members that meet your Match Preferences. You can also search by Who’s Online, New Members, Near Me, and VIP Members.
When you find someone that you are interested in, you can send them a message, flirt, add them to your hotlist, add them to your friends, or send them a tip.
You can chat in the chatrooms as well. You’ll find lots of different chatrooms with different themes. You can chat with Instant Messenger as well, and send a message to anyone who is online.
You can also play Hot or Not. You’ll view a photo and select like or pass. Liked members will be added to your hotlist.
There are also lots of groups that you can join. Groups are very active. They are a great way to get to know people with a similar interest and learn more about the lifestyle.
Alt offers you lots of ways to connect with others, from advanced search to adult chatrooms. While a paid membership is required to communicate, it’s well worth the wealth of features you have access to.