“Casual” Dating Online

Casual dating as you would expect is a lot different than regular eharmony style dating. There is no personality matching here – their might be sexuality matching but no long match quizzes and love calculations.

Casual dating online and casual personals is all about finding a sexual match or casual sex partner to have fun with. It could be long term or just for one night.

The singles and couples that are attracted to casual dating sites are usually bi curious women and sexually frustrated guys or high sex drive guys. There are also many couples and gay/lesbian singles on these sites due to the nature of their sexuality.

Casual friend finder makes it easy to search for the kind of single that you would love to hang out with – the only problem is that if your looking for an innocent “nice girl” you wont have much luck. Even if the girls are 18 -25 they will by no means be innocent.

They are on an casual dating site advertising themselves to just about any guy that emails them. So you have to get past the reality that they will have been with plenty of guys before.

But their is an up side to this – the women sure will be able to teach you a thing or two or match you in the sack. Most of the members (men and women) have most boxes ticked if you will… Meaning they are very adventurous and up for just about anything.

Casual dating does not mean regular ol dating for older people it pretty much means sex dating. Meaning you are looking for another person for casual sex and casual dating.

This usually ends up as a one night stand or “intimate encounter”…

The trick with casual dating is getting to know someone on the site well enough to meet offline. This is quite a big step! you are meeting someone that has sexual intentions offline in the flesh.

This is why you should always meet at a bar or local area first before doing anything else. That way you will find out if their is any chemistry between you before you play out any fantasies that you have been chatting about within the closed doors of a membership site.

I can only imagine that these sorts of sites would be a god sent for bi/gay/lesbian folks – I mean it’s hard enough being single and finding women that are keen and single themselves but throw yet another sexual orientation filter in their and life just got harder.

So I guess the power of casual friend finder is the ability to be honest about your intent in a safe and reasonably secure environment. By being honest about your intent you allow others to contact you in full knowledge of the outcome.

No emotions of attachment are associated with the interaction

No expectations of future engagement

Every expectation of open and casual fun is assumed and so as a result everyone is on the same page.

When their are holes in communication between two people hearts get broken. Casual dating is run on honesty and openness… It can take away some of the intrigue chase but that’s one downside that is outweighed by the ability to openly communicate your intention within an online community.

You can get a silver membership at casual friend finder for about $25 depending on where you live – this allows you to get the phone numbers of many many adventurous women.

You might think that your up for anything but when it comes time to accept an invitation to a swingers party could you do it?

Could you show up to a threesome with a two bi females and not freak out?

Casual Dating: Respect

Realize that within the casual dating community their are many many different experience levels and personalities.

You are dealing with a very touchy emotional subjects so even if you are talking to a 24 year old adventurous vixen keep in mind that she may not know what she wants. She may just like the online attention – she may have no intention of meeting up offline. She may come across confident during your emailing and then seem distant, nervous and flighty when you meet up at the bar.

Being in an casual dating community does not give you the right to disrespect anyone or treat anyone with less respect than you normally would.

From experience you should find that every member is very friendly and open about what they want. If they dont want you to email you they will politely suggest that they are not interested.

If you post images of your body you will likely find members giving you a “thumbs up” and emailing you about how annoyed they are about you not living in their area. For women this can be a huge confidence booster.

Because a site like casual friend finder is such an open and honest community men are free to give compliments from behind the privacy of a computer screen. And their are many sexually related compliments flying around the virtual community of aff as we speak.

Casual dating is not about being seedy or spying on anyone. It’s not about unsafe unprotected sex with complete strangers or though this does happen. It’s about giving everyone the opportunity to meet like minded casual singles in an open environment free of any ridicule or judgement.