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Perhaps you should be looking for an online love finder? A Compatible partner and soulmate finder ;-D
Local Sex Finder
A local sex finder is simply a website that allows you to search for personals that are interested in casual sex. It is not an automatic sex creator or some sort of mythical machine but rather a people finding tool.
You have to do all of the searching, emailing, flirting, and following up. You are not really finding local “sex”. You are finding local people that are interested in casual encounters and casual dating.
With this quick mindset shift, we can continue. I suggest this because thinking of women as simply objects of your sexual desire will quickly lead to failure on your part.
A local people finder with the theme based on casual sex will allow you to pick and choose who you flirt with. Ideally, it will allow you to create an online presence (like Facebook) so you can be searched for in the database too…
This means that those living close by will be able to find you and contact you for sex as well as you being able to find them.
It will be like great yellow pages of sexual desire – each listing with different life experience – each person is there for basically the same reason, but each with a unique personality.
As each new members joins this local sex finder they continually add something to the member pool.
Something unique – it could be something as simple as their face.
Ideally this “local sex finder” will understand that you have different needs and desires to the next guy and it will allow complex search and match features so you can find a good sexual match.
This local sex finder should be heavily populated – its strength will be in its user database so that no matter where you are in the world there will always be someone to contact locally.
Finding sex locally requires that each user inputs their current city of origin – this needs to filter singles by location when you get your online matches.
So all that is required now is to log into your own profile area and then click on online matches – you then have a list of sexually motivated singles near you. If you want you can click on the search button and sort the list of singles near you by all sorts of different filters.
- sexual experience
So wherever you go in your leisure or work travels you have a virtual space to enter that will allow you to find people that are interested in casual sexual relationships.
This happens to be an invaluable tool – it would be very hard to get in touch with singles with this intent so easily otherwise.
If you have great “game” then the bars and clubs are an O.K. way of finding sexual partners but it does not compare to the efficiency of a site online dating search because of speed and INTENT.
How to Use Local Sex Finder Sites?
If you are still unsure of which sites to use, don’t worry. You have plenty of choices.
In order to use them, you will have to be at least 18 years old. Many of them are free and other than that to use them you will need to register using only your email address and username of your choice.
We are talking about sites with hard sexual intent and in order to show your intent and the type of encounter you are looking for, you will need to come up with a username that shows that intent very clearly and directly.
For example, you have two usernames. One is Bob, and the other is CasualSexLover-NYC. It is clear like a day and night which one of those two shows clearly what type of partner or an encounter you are looking for.
So pay attention to the type of username you will use and try to be a bit creative.
Those types of sites are full of people and your best bet is to use every opportunity to stand out from the crowd and distinguish yourself.
If you are doing what everyone else is doing that means that you will drown in a crowd of boring and unoriginal profiles, and your chances of finding a free and casual sexual encounter are going to be much lower.
Set Up Your Profile
After you have registered using your email address and username, the next step is to complete your profile. The quality of your profile will make or break your chances of finding a sexual fling online.
Imagine that your profile is a window into which a potential sexual date is looking at you. If it was a real window, of course, you would do everything in your power to present it the best you can.
You would clean it, decorate it and maybe put some nice flowers near it to make it look fresh and exciting.
The same applies to your profile. Your best bet is to present yourself in best possible light. So use the best photographs you have. Don’t even shy from the idea of hiring a professional photographer.
A professional knows his job well and if you explain what types of photographs you want and need, he will surely deliver them.
From experience, there are some photographs that are going well on those types of sites and other types that are best to avoid if you actually want to meet somebody.
Bathroom selfies– you definitely don’t want to end up somewhere on the internet as an example of that creepy dude, taking a bathroom selfie without his t-shirt while in the background you can clearly see a messy and filthy bathroom.
Even if you have a body of a Greek god, bathroom selfies are not cool.
Showing off– There is a difference between blatantly showing off, whether that be your money, your possessions, your fancy car or your house, and presenting good and original photographs that are at the same time showing your lifestyle.
There is a difference between a photo in which you are holding a key of your new BMW in your hands, clearly showing them to impress and a photo where you are driving in your car and just having a good time. Aim for those types of photos. Don’t try to impress.
- Action photos:
If you lead an active lifestyle and you love sports or traveling, definitely use those types of photos. Show some good photos from your travels, or photos where you are active and in some kind of motion. Shirtless photos are ok in this situation if the occasion is right and you are proud of your body.
- Use social proof:
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