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It looks like dating an older woman is no longer something that we see only in movies and tv shows. It is an official trend and I believe that every young man thought about it at least once in his lifetime.

Dating a sexy milf is a trend nowadays and we are seeing it happen all around us. The trend was popularized by tv shows like Sex and the City, Desperate Housewives, Weeds, and movies like American Pie.

I believe that every guy remembers Stiflers mom. Enough said

It looks like more and more people are sharing the same belief and are searching for partners that are much older and much more experienced than them.  But why is that so popular? Is it just a trend that will pass or is there something more to it?

Well, I had to find the answers for myself and learn from first-hand experience what it’s like to date a sexy milf.  I admit that sleeping with older woman was something that I simply had to cross off my bucket list.

And I did. It was a great experience with a great woman. 

Here is what I learned.

But first…

What is a MILF?

A word milf is not new and you have certainly heard it if you have ever watched a Hollywood movie, tv show or porn.

It’s a decade old word now and it is a slang word that stands for-  Mom I’d like to fuck, or -Mom I would like to fornicate with.

The word milf actually represents an attractive older woman, usually in her 30’s, 40’s or 50’s. M stands for mom which means that in order for a woman to be considered a milf she needs to have children.

But I wouldn’t go so far and I would consider a woman without children to be a milf if she is attractive, mature and intellectually superior to her younger competition.

A milf doesn’t even have to be married. She can be single, married or the best possible option – divorced. When I say the best option I mean in terms of her availability and openness to dating younger guys and even openness to dating in general.

Single moms are in most cases too busy for dating and even if she finds time for you her kids will always be her top priority. So dating a sexy milf who is also a single mother could be a logistical nightmare.

Married milfs are in most cases the hardest to get, but it is possible if you know what you are doing, if you are not morally judgmental and if you are very discreet.

Is a word milf offensive to women?

It depends on the woman. Some women find the word milf to be very offensive. They think that it is the objectification of women.

But there are women that find the word milf to be a compliment and a proof of their attractiveness.

When we take into a consideration that women are aging much faster than men, calling the woman a milf when she is in her 30s could be the best compliment ever for her.

Everybody loves to get his or her ego stroked a bit, especially women, and what could be a better compliment to a woman than to call her attractive and sexy.

And it is not the truth at all that all women lose their looks when they get in their 30s and 40s. It all depends on the woman. If she takes care of herself, her nutrition and her body, and takes her workouts seriously, she could age beautifully and stay very attractive even in her 50s.

Are Milfs and Cougars the same thing?

Samantha Jones, Kim Cattrall’s role in Sex and the City is a legit cougar

Many people are mixing up the terms milf and cougar. Although they are similar they are different in their meaning.

Cougars are also older and more mature women. Cougars can also be single, married or divorced. They can have children or not, but the main difference is that cougars are more active in their dating efforts.

Cougars are actively searching for younger guys, for relationships, casual dating, and sexual experiences. Milfs, on the other hand, aren’t so active in their search. So the difference is that cougars actively pursue younger guys called cubs, while milfs are more passive.

Why dating a sexy milf is so appealing to younger guys?

We could say that both sides are attracted to one another for different reasons. I can talk only about my experiences with dating a sexy milf and my reasons for being attracted to older women. But research shows that there are few things that younger guys find the most attractive in milfs, and vice versa.

Younger guys love dating sexy milfs because:

  • Milfs are independent women

There is a big difference in dating a younger girl who is still maybe in college, still living with her parents or just starting to live her life more independently.

The dynamic is completely the opposite with milfs. Milfs are in most cases professional women that have their own place, their own car and their own busy lives. They know what they want in most cases and organizing dates with them will be a piece of cake. Older women will try to use every minute of their free time the best they can and you can expect minimal flaking from them.

You don’t need to worry how to tell her that you need to get up early in the morning in order to send her home after sex.  She will get it. In most cases, they are the ones that will invite you to their place and send you home after sex, because they know that they need to get up early the next day.

  • Milfs are more mature and down to earth

If you want to consider dating a sexy milf more seriously as a younger guy, she could be a perfect partner. For a serious relationship to succeed the partner’s need to possess a certain dose of emotional maturity.

If you have a problem, you two can talk it out and resolve the problem peacefully, like two adults.  In most cases, milfs won’t behave childishly and throw unreasonable tantrums.

If your relationship is strictly sexual, you can discuss sexual topics more openly and without fear of judgment. They have a certain level of maturity and experience. You could say that they have seen it all.

  • Milfs know what they want

When milf starts an affair with a younger guy you can be certain that she knows exactly why. She is not an emotional teenager anymore and she knows how to get the things that she wants.

If she decides that casual sex is what she wants, prepare yourself for the most effortless and the most enjoyable casual sex experience of your life.

No drama, no fights, no expectations of romance and monogamy. Just pure sex and good times for the two of you.

If she already has kids and doesn’t plan to have more, even better. You can enjoy the sexual side of your relationship without fear that she will try to trap you with pregnancy. Maybe she also wants no strings attached sex.

  • Milfs are classy and sophisticated

She has her own job, her own money, her own car, and her own apartment. In most cases, older hot milfs are entrepreneurs with their own business.

They are educated and you can say that they are classy. It is evident from the way they dress to the way they talk and behave. Rarely will you see younger women behave as classy as milfs

You will rarely see classy milfs stumble on the side of the road, drunk, in the 3 in the morning. But you can expect that from a college girl.

  • She won’t be clingy and needy

When you compare dating a sexy milf and dating a college girl it will be a night and day difference.

College girls are still not emotionally mature enough in most cases.

If they really like you they will become clingy and needy after the two of you have sex. They will see you as a source of validation and they will always try to get that validation from you. So you can expect constant messages and cry for attention.

Not so much when you are dating a milf. They are after all more mature and surer in themselves. They won’t pressure you that much to give them so much attention. You will feel like you have all the freedom you need. Almost effortless dating.

But be warned, the roles could easily be reversed if you are not emotionally mature enough to control yourself. You could be the one falling in love and cry for attention.

  • No games playing

We all know how tiresome and frustrating it can be when both sides start playing mind games in the beginning of the relationship. It’s like the both sides, the men and the women have their own little relationship book of rules.

And the rules can in most cases bring more confusion and more frustration when dating should be effortless and fun. But milfs already know all those rules and games. They ‘ve seen it all so they don’t even bother.

If a milf really likes you she will let you know. Also if you try to make your move, she will quickly let you know if you have a chance or not.

Casual relationships will also be effortless and without stupid games. Milfs are very secure in their own sexuality.  They will very openly tell you when they want to see you to have some fun. After all, they are very busy and they don’t like to waste their time on childish games and rules.

  • She could teach you a thing or two about sex

We men always think that we know everything about sex. After all, we ‘ve watched so much porn and we have seen it all. Our ego couldn’t survive the fact that maybe we are not such an experts as we would like to think.

Reminds me of a scene from the movie Don Jon in which the main actor Joseph Gordon Lewit falls head over heels in love with Scarlett Johansson. He is trying to seduce her and sleep with her expecting it to be the best sex ever. But, in the end, the whole experience leaves him disappointed.

It wasn’t until he was seduced by his older college colleague who is a milf, that he learned what is a great lovemaking experience.

That means that sex with an experienced milf could easily be the best sexual experience of your life.

Why milfs should try dating younger guys

I think that milfs could also benefit from dating and having fun with younger guys.

A lot of times women as they get older get too preoccupied with the routine of life.

They put their work on the pedestal and they forget that it is ok to have some fun sometimes and unwind a little bit. And a younger guy could be a perfect opportunity to inject a dose of fun into their lives.

Here are a few reasons why every milf should consider dating a younger guy:

  • They will feel younger and more alive

Younger guys are in most cases fun, casual and relaxed. They are still not so preoccupied with boring and serious life things and the only thing that is on their mind is fun, sex and partying.

Younger guy dating a sexy milf could totally be a win-win situation. Milf teaches the guy how to be more mature and younger guy teaches milf how to relax a bit, live in the moment and have some fun.

  • Younger guys have unlimited sexual stamina

Women always complain how guys think only about sex. But for a milf that is searching for a younger lover to satisfy her sexual needs, a younger guy is a jackpot.

Again a win-win situation. Milf teaches a guy a thing or two, like how to please a woman better and be a better lover overall, and younger guy satisfies older lady with his unlimited sexual stamina and willingness to please.

  • They can do something naughty and in secret

We all know that the forbidden fruit is the sweetest. When something is not ordinary,  is different, mysterious, and naughty, it’s even more interesting to us.

That is also one of the reasons why older milfs absolutely love to date younger men. It is not something ordinary and it is best if kept as a secret. Successful women know how important is discretion for their image.

And if they meet a young and attractive guy who knows how important discretion is to them and shows them that they are safe with him, they will certainly show him a good time.

  • Young guys won’t pressure for a  relationship

 

The last thing on younger guys mind is to get into a relationship when he is young and the whole world is ahead of him.

Dating a sexy milf gives him the best possible chance to enjoy quality sex with an experienced woman while also enjoying his freedom.

For a milf sex with older guys is expected and sometimes boring. Older guys are getting tired of casual sex as time passes and want to have a family more and more.

For a milf who already has children or who is freshly divorced that is the least attractive option.  In the situation like that older guys can seem boring and not exciting at all.

Where to meet a sexy milf for casual dating and sex?

When we are talking in general about the best places for meeting girls, clubs, bars, and online dating sites are the best places to find casual sex.

But if your mission is to find and to date a sexy milf, those places are not the best choice. Bars and clubs are filled with younger crowds and you won’t see a lot of older women hanging in clubs late at night. I mean you can find them but the chances that you will pick them up are minimal.

Your game will have to be on point, logistics prepared and you better pray that they have found a nanny to take care of their baby for the night. Otherwise, forget it.

It is always best to prepare a good strategy and play the hand that will give you the best chance to win.

So when searching for a sexy milf these places are the best:

Online Dating Sites

Just like in anything in life some things are better than the others. The same applies to dating sites. We have divided the sites where you have the best chances of meeting a milf in two categories.

The first category is the sites designed especially for younger guys looking to meet milfs and milfs looking to meet younger guys.

The second category is general dating sites. There you can meet people for casual dating, casual sex, long-term relationships and even marriage.

Older Women Dating

older women dating

Older women dating is a milf and cougar dating site. If you are younger and looking to find a sexy milf for dating and casual sex it’s the perfect choice to start the search.

Read older women dating full review here

Cougared

cougaredCougared claims to be the only legitimate 100% free Cougar dating site. While the site’s features aren’t particularly impressive, it is actually free. It’s worth using if you are interested in dating a sexy milf or a cougar.

The site is completely free to use and it’s very easy to navigate. It gives you the option to write a private blog on the site and participate in the forums.

Cougared isn’t the most advanced cougar dating site out there, but it is completely free. For the price, it’s worth giving it a chance.

Read a full review here

Lonely Cheating Wives

Lonely cheating wives is a site for ladies who are trapped in a passionless marriage and who want to meet a sexy young man for a discreet affair.

By becoming a member, you will find a great selection of fine married ladies who are more than willing to engage in extramarital fun. So, if you are 18 years old and above, join the community, share and be sociable!

Lonely Cheating Wives does not allow free membership.  The purpose is to narrow down its user base to just those who are serious about their intentions.

With a mixture of positive and negative impressions, it is recommended to check out Lonely Cheating Wives yourself and see how it does for you.

Read a full review of Lonely Cheating Wives here

POF- Plenty of Fish

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POF is one of the best free dating sites and ad personals around.  If you have been reading some of our posts you will notice that we have mentioned this website a couple times already

It’s free to join, and this website has a massive number of members estimated to be near 30 million, if not more. This is pretty amazing, considering the fierce competition in the dating industry.

It is not a site strictly for milfs but with almost 30 million active users you can be sure to find someone interesting.

Read a full POF review here

OK Cupid

OkCupid

Ok Cupid is one of the biggest online dating sites and it is widely known as the ” relationship dating site”. Users of Ok Cupid will need to answer some questions and fill out some tests before using the site.

The goal is to get to know the user better in order to find them a better match. The questions are taken from the large user base and they range from funny to the more serious ones.

Ok Cupid is a free dating site and you can also download a free app.

It’s one of the general dating sites but it’s also one of the most popular dating sites.

If you are someone who is interested in dating a sexy milf OK Cupid could be a great place to expand your search.

Read a full review here

Daygame

For all of you brave ones who are not satisfied with online dating, day game could be the perfect way to meet a sexy milf for dating and casual relationship.

Milfs are busy women who have lots of responsibilities. They work, manage their business, take care of their families and their homes.

But that doesn’t mean that they are not open to an affair with a younger guy. It just means that you will have a harder time to actually catch them because they are always on the go.

If you want to try day game the best places for practice are

  • libraries,
  • coffee shops,
  • shopping malls,
  • and even supermarkets.

Those are the places where milfs habituate.

 

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