So here is a really great post from random history… It’s a bunch of facts about dating and relationships. According to the U.S. census, there are 95.9 million unmarried people in the U.S.
Let’s assume many of them are actually couples yet to be married… + eliminate elderly and the young + remove all the guys…
What are you left with? A TON of single women. Guys you better believe it – there are many single girls in your area – you walk past them every day.
But that’s not so amazing – let’s add another fact from facts.random history
Over 50% of all singles in America have not had a date in more than two years. (Warren, Neil Clark. 2005. Falling in Love for All the Right Reasons. New York, NY: Center Street.)
Now we are talking!
This means of the single girls left over from the first fact HALF of them haven’t even been on a date in the last 2 years! Not a SINGLE date?
Don’t you think they would be more than happy that you are showing them any sort of attention considering they haven’t been loved for 700+ days in a row?
Christ you would think they would be starting to get a little desperate by then huh…
So if you are in the states now and you know a girl is single you have 50% chance that she has been off the game for some time.
It will be obvious if she is into you… Pick up on the flirting she is doing whether she is conscious of it or not.
Pick up on the reality of the situation:
- You are a dominant successful happy and sexually energetic male
- She is a submissive female that has spent time pampering herself to attract your attention
- IF she is single you have a 50% chance she hasn’t been so much as hugged by another guy for some time.
Now that you are aware of all this… Are you still going to sit on your ass and look the other way? Are you going to deny yourself the opportunity to get to know such an amazing girl?
It doesn’t matter if anything comes of the interaction or not but based on statistics there is a very good chance something WILL come of it. “IT” being YOU talking to HER.
Because if history is anything to go by it will tell us that women don’t initiate conversation with men in a dating context very much. They DO make themselves available and flirt until their face falls off but wont walk over and buy you a drink!
So if you take the responsibility of the man in this interaction and strike up conversation with a girl you have your eye on you actually have a pretty good chance of success.
Worried about what to say?
When a man first approaches a woman, she will base 55% of her initial impression of him on his appearance and body language, 38% on his style of speaking, and 7% on what he actually says.
(Zdrock, Victoria. 2008. Dr. Z on Scoring: How to Pick Up, Seduce, and Hook Up with Hot Women. New York, NY: A Fireside Book.)
So depending on your tone your body language and your appearance you should be able to remove almost all anxiety regarding “what to say”… The reality is that IT DOESN”T MATTER… Turns out it’s all about how you feel and how you convey those emotions to her during the first minute of interaction.
If you are a happy positive enthusiastic and well dressed guy who approaches a women… well now I think we might just have a winning combination! Add to that the willingness to keep trying different women until you find one that likes you … BINGO – successful dating at it’s finest.
image – Tom Clare