David Wygant Genius – On Being A Man

My friend Dave De angelo held this seminar series in 2009 and david wygant was there. This guy is a genious! Just watch this:

There are notes under each video if you don’t want to watch but I recommend listening to this guy. His confidence and attitude are spot on.



Women are one big romantic comedy

They are not looking to be picked up!

They are not looking for that funny guy

They are not looking to be entertained

Women want that serendipitous moment

STOP READING and get out there.


Just be you


Coffee shops

Breaking train of thought


They want to be yours

A real man understands and listens!

NEVER give away your power!

Don’t act with a routine

Pick up lines don’t work , do you really have nothing to say in the moment?

BE PRESENT in the moment be that confident guy

You can feel that godly spiritual feeling of confidence inside you THAT is what’s attractive

OBSERVE everything she is doing

Women are about “moments”

HAHA this guys is genius

We check out pornos And they read romance novels! THINK ABOUT IT

OBSERVE who they are and what they are doing

It’s not what you say it’s how you say it It’s the attitude

As old as it sounds you have to be


No hesitation in the corner

It’s NOT about the outcome, and it never works according to plan so just observe and be dynamic. Yes it’s tough but it’s all
about becoming a man so get excited about growth rather than anxious about outcomes!


Just talk –just connect – just listen


And get excited about what she is saying, ask insightful questions

Women are REALLY sexual, they don’t like to talk about it with strangers but women are super spiritual sexual beings!

You have the power and there is amazing power in using fantasy

You need to SHOW her how amazing you are by how you say it not what you say

Get your voice tone UP

Stories are GREAT

She loves using fantasy and imagery in her head – create that powerful moment

Dont be the cliché be the story and unique experience in her life!


Part 4

Follow up right away

Bust her balls a little and set up that date

Don’t prequalify – that’s boring! Make your dates adventurous

Women are about creating memories!

And it starts from the beginning; if you don’t connect and initiate something special by listening to her you just like every
other guy.

Whether is fun sex, marriage , connection, girlfriends

Women want different things and you have to LISTEN

You need to relate to them!

It’s about a lifestyle change rather than phone numbers and self validation though sex

Missed opportunities from a bar…



This stuff is hard but it’s amazingly powerful and rewarding

5 Things I would love to do

Fuck bars

Go to a whole foods store and TALK to women because you know how to converse about whole foods

“Be Mayor Of Your Life”

Get used to talking

Get validate by yourself

Collect information


Get that mind going

Use and Show emotion in your speech

Be the man who is proud to be who he is


Even if you DONT like someone get excited about talking with people

Be memorable!

It’s not about an instant date or instant gratification

You don’t have to be the connector but get to know them

Girls will soon notice you – and validate themselves to you

It’s NOT about rejection

Rejection is a myth

You CAN dictate about how you want to live your life – and that is what’s ATTRACTIVE


Your own best openers – observe your own life, once again become observant.

Write things down don’t memorise

Work on your gut instinct

So you know what to say in every situation without ridiculous openers

Supreme inner confidence

Whole foods – observe people, notice them doing things

Be a leader

Take control

Just talk about what they are doing

They are naughty little girls right?

Don’t say … Excuse them

This clip gets dam funny half way though about the rye bread in block buster

Be observant everywhere!

Don’t be tuna guy in blockbuster, be tuna guy in whole foods

Claim her! Your mine, just claim her, claim kids, men everyone they are yours and you don’t need validation to do so


Be persistent guys!

Don’t complain

Be strong and confident

Building your social network up

Know everybody

Dont expect anything from them

Just give to people and make amazing experiences everywhere you go.




People love attention

Be interested in them

Women will be attracted to you no matter what if you start to listen

Dont chase

Don’t do anything in your life that you don’t like doing! (sound crazy?)

Work your ass of and believe in yourself

Daves summary

Let your personality come out

You don’t need to fake it

Be yourself

Just talk

Connect at a higher level with yourself and with women

Become a man

Do this!

Women will line up

Live a passionate life!