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Finding other swingers online that are as open as you are can only really be done within online communities – You could try Craigslist but as far as safety and quality goes it’s a real lottery.

If you are actually going to be I intimate with this couple I suggest that you invest in the night and use a site like casualfriendfinder (largest swinger and casual personals site online)

Finding swingers out their in the general public by going to bars or meeting them at social events is so unlikely it’s not worth your time. There could be small swinger societies and groups you could join but even these are usually small and isolated. By using and online personals site you are able to search for the kind of swinger couple that matches your personal taste.

You might be interested in a more upmarket professional couple or a couple that has plenty of experience.

Using casual friend finder you can search for swingers by intent interest age location and a host of other filters.

By using casual personals to set up swinging good times you save much time, effort and potential embarrassment… and don’t worry about having to show yourself to the world! You can remain anonymous until the time comes when you need to ring up the couple and get to know them better.

You might be surprised at the number of couples near you that are into swinging. It takes a certain kind of relationship and trust to swing so you need to be able to search within preselected communities.

The demographics of couples who swing are actually diverse – they will be mostly over 35 and experienced with the occasional young mid 20’s couple.

You might expect couples that swing to be a certain personality or social background but the reality of swinging is that they come from all walks of life. You could find yourself having sex with a younger women while your wife gets to have fun with a young energetic guy.

You will feel a sense of great freedom when taking part in swinging sexual encounters. You have reached a different area of trust in your relationship and are able to disconnect physical pleasure with emotional love…

However there are risks when you “date” groups of swingers

If you are naturally a jealous man it could take some time before you come to terms with another man having sex with your wife. Most men would never allow this and if this is going to be to much for you then you can place strict rules down before starting.

You can set up rules within your casual friend finder profile that states what you will allow and what you don’t allow in a swinging sexual relationship. This means that only those who agree to your rule will get in contact.

This could be anything but usually involves the degree of contact you allow and how far you want to take it. If it’s your first time make sure you and your partner are safe at all times and don’t get forced into anything by another couple.

Your TRUST will get tested and pushed to the limit and if you are not ready for swinging it has the potential to ruin your relationship. So with great joy and sexual freedom comes the risk that the sex could break up your loving relationship. Make sure that you are both ready for what’s to come…

Communication is critical: As long as you and your wife/gf are on the same page then everything should work out fine. But miss-communicate or assume that your wife is fine with everything could lead to awkward fights and break-ups.

Never assume anything as your assumptions could lead to the end of your marriage – this actually happens more than you would think. The man really wants to swing and the women is not interpreted.

She finally agrees to give it a go but has her own thoughts about what wants to do. The man thinks that he can then organise groups and private evenings without consulting her first. This leads to fights and misunderstandings.

As a guy that wants to swing you must respect you partners boundaries and expectations. As long as you have an in depth conversation about what you both expect and want out of a swinging relationship then nothing can go wrong. You are then able to organise certain boundaries and safe words and are able to pick potential problem areas out before they happen.

You will then know what your wife is into and what she is not prepared to do – You then become her protector and can come to her aid if things get a little weird. As long as she feels safe everything should be fine.

It takes a certain relationship to be able to go through casual swinger sex and come out unscathed on the other side.