Free Online Dating Rant For Guys

Right I am referring here to sites such as plentyoffish and okcupid…
If your a dude your motivation is likely going to be of a sexual nature, it might not be but I am going to assume that you are in it for the tail.
If you want to have any sort of success with free online dating sites it is crucial that you suppress the urge to come across sexual in any way. You will soon find out that most of the women on the sites are looking for a casual meet up and a chat over coffee.
They are not looking for sexual chat with some anonymous guy, most of them are not looking to meet up for secret sex weekends.
Free online dating sites are NOT the places to divulge your sexual desires and fetishes. Women have big sensitive radars for that sort of bullshit especially online.
Within plenty of fish you will see women specifically state that you cant be
in a relationship
married
looking for naughty chat
looking to meet up somewhere for sex
And that you have to be:
Normal
Interesting and have some cool hobbies
Quote “be able to hold down a NORMAL conversation”
If women are specifically stating this in their profiles then they are obviously getting creepy discreet messages about how
hot they are and whether they want to meet up tonight.
Come on guys WTF!!!
Control yourselves!
The sexual intimacy will come thick and fast once you have shown women that you can be trusted. This involves the NORMAL “interview” process. The more you read the PL dating tips and the better you get at being:
Confident
Self Reliant
Interesting
Conversive (ease of conversation)
the more success you will have will with women and as a result this will lead to intimacy. If all you want is sex then join a local swingers club or again sign up with some casual site or fling site. You cant take shortcuts when you join innocent free dating sites, sure women will have motives and intentions of their own but they require the initial trust and initiation phase so give them what they want.
I think you know intuitively the types of women that join sex sites … And I have a feeling that your not into those sorts of women . What you want is an innocent kind and attractive “girl next door” and you just cant find these types at filthy casual sites.
Right?
So by joining plentyoffish and looking for sex you are attempting to take a shortcut straight to the game. 99% of the time it just does not work without first showing her your good side and putting in some effort (which is the fun part anyway)
EMBRACE THE FLIRTING PHASE
One of the most enjoyable stages of any relationship is the flirting and sexual tension phase. This is what girls love and are great at. So don’t go skipping the fun part!
At plentyoffish come across completely neutral, like you would when trying to establish a friendship with someone. (because that’s what you’re doing any way)
You want to come across approachable online – the more the better
Use:
Social Proof:
A picture with you and other girls and guys
Kindness:
Or you with you and a puppy
Interest:
A picture with you on travel

Use absolutely no sexual references at all and indicate you are simply there to make more friends and see where it goes.
Set up dates at a mutual location
DONE…
That is the end of the line for the use of free online dating sites. You are better off not trying to establish chemistry or “sexual tension” online. Once you have her number then you can ring her up or text her with some phone game

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Comments 1

  1. That first comment is pointless. It doesn’t say anything about anything. lol. As a woman, i agree with everything about this post. If you just want sex, go to an adult sex dating site, instead of trying to hook innocent women, which ends up failing, when they find out what you’re after. It never works. Go where your interests are. Us women who want a true relationship are not interested in your type. Hence, why i’m on a more platonic dating site. Duh. Also, you believe the stuff your friends tell you about dating women. ha. Look where THAT got you.

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