Finding the One by Astrological Signs: Gemini


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May 21 – June 20

The twins. People born with the Sun in Gemini are just straight-up intelligent. Ruled by Mercury the messenger, they are quick-witted conversationalists. It is these characteristics that will enable them to go through life relatively unscathed despite the many difficulties they may face.

Their mind is always curious and thirsty for knowledge and information. Being twins, characteristically they can have dual nature – a mischievous, light-hearted side or the darker, sarcastic character. The twins can also tackle more tasks at once, used to having company around they tend to be extroverted and can perform well in team activities – whether in sports, academics or work. When it comes to money, Gemini sees it as a necessary evil and they do not put too much thought earning or spending it.

Gemini is an air sign with mutable quality – they tend to change their mind, and plans, and cannot stay in one place or state in their life at a time – if anything they crave change to keep their ever curious mind challenged. This tends to make them seem unreliable and inconsistent. They can get impatient too when people can’t seem to keep up with them.

Their airy quality makes them quite easy-going and enjoying the light side of life – a double-edged sword that can make them perfect companions to enjoy life to the fullest, but seem like an unsupportive character when the tough gets going.

The Olsen Twins, Mary-Kate and Ashley, born June 13

Gemini for Partners

When it comes to relationships and intimacy, Gemini needs someone they can connect to on the intellectual level, challenge them and learn from. When treading relationships, they use their communication prowess to get the attention of their love interest – they will use humor and the breadth of their brain power to impress their potential love match and express their feelings.

They are extremely turned on by the smart ones – that even foreplay and sex will be based on brains getting a hard on and getting wet. Words will be used immensely during sex – heightening the sensual physical sensations.

Gemini Men

Gemini men, according to Astrology Zodiac Signs, are lively, funny and have a thirst for adventure. There will never be a boring moment when in a relationship with one. They are smooth talkers and will chat their way into your heart, winning you through sense of humor and knowledge of diverse topics.

Johnny Depp, born June 9.
Johnny Depp, born June 9.

The duality of a Gemini man makes them attractive to others. He values freedom, variety, and intellectualism – and allowing him to do all these and more are sure-fire ways to win his heart and attention. While he is quite chatty, he is not as comfortable talking about feelings. When in comes to sex, he prefers spontaneity and trying out new things, otherwise, he gets bored.

He isn’t the type to commit into a relationship too soon, and maybe even seem like the womanizer type – but this isn’t the case at all. Once they find the one, they dislike risking what was built as doing so is not a very smart thing to do. They are capable of being the quintessential husband stereotype that stays at home where he can spend time reading a book, watching a comedy or action flick and entertaining their wife and child/ren.

Gemini Women

To seduce a Gemini woman, it takes a very intelligent and humorous man. She can be impressed if she gets mentally stimulated, she likes it when the man shares new insights and ideas. One can take a Gemini woman on a date almost anywhere – but she’ll especially enjoy something that she hasn’t done before.

Angelina Jolie, born June 4.Not to be bound by limitations, she is open-minded and is willing to meet and go on many dates to find someone who can be the perfect partner – the smart woman she is, she knows exactly what she is looking for. She loves a good laugh and being around people, and is a blast to bring as a date on any social function as she can easily win crowds with her candidness and candor.

A woman with the sign of the twins can give a man the best of both worlds. She can be a passionate lover and a gentle nurturer at the same time – but it will entail a balancing act to keep her interested and happy for a long time. She can be unpredictable, and is not a damsel in distress – a man cannot expect her to fill in a stereotypical role as she’ll always need freedom, adventure, change and the chance to socialize.

Gemini Compatibility with Other Signs

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Compatibility of star signs is illustrated in an article at Metaphorical Platypus, where two studies were used to quantify the compatibility between signs. A study by Sachs (1998) and Castille (2000) was conducted in Switzerland and France to review significant results using marriage and divorce statistics as to which astrological signs are most compatible with each other.

Combined with information gathered from iZodiac,, Astrostyle, and Compatible Astrology, listed below are Gemini’s compatibility rankings.

#1 Gemini – Libra

Two air signs, these two won’t have any problems keeping up with each other’s changing whims and needs. Both are on the extroverted side, this couple can be the life of the party or the host themselves. Their intellectual chemistry is in sync, as well as their sense of adventure. Libra is a cardinal sign, and the mutable Gemini is willing to follow Libra’s lead but flexible enough to adapt if there will be changes in the plan.

This relationship can make other couples jealous and experience a major FOMO case with both individual’s mental prowess, communication and social skills, and openness for adventure, fun, and spontaneity. Their social media feed will be envy-inducing full of travel and friends’ photos. Sex will be an intellectual pursuit – desiring a mental connection before doing any of the other relationship contact points like emotional and physical. Intimacy will be fun and unpredictable.

Challenges lie in both signs’ changeability. Both of flighty characteristics, nothing seems to be certain, even the relationship itself. Libra’s moodiness is brought about by its tendency to weigh the situation and analyze things, Gemini’s a product of the symbol’s dualism. If the scales sees beyond the twins impulsiveness and appreciate its good-naturedness, and the twins see how Libra can provide insights on both sides of the coin – the relationship will be successful.

#2 Gemini – Aquarius

In the runner-up position to a Gemini’s heart are Aquarians. Both Air signs, Geminis are known to have a great sense of humor and wittiness, which is complimentary to an Aquarius’ idea-filled mind. This intellectual bond, according to is strong and true – Aquarians being humanist-philosophers and Geminis thinker-conversationalists. The two will create great conversations over the most interesting subjects, and the Aquarius will appreciate the fact that they are talking to someone who can turn them on intellectually, after all, sense of humor entails a fast processing and highly creative mind – both very important characteristics for an Aquarius. Both of these signs are energetic, seek independence and thrive in change, which is amazing that none of the parties will feel limited or constrained by the relationship.

Both being very smart, as per Astrology Zodiac Signs, they can sexually arouse each other through words and ideas. It is also their way with words that ensure that communication will not be a problem. Trust between the two signs is high given that they value each other’s independence, and both parties do not have the energy to deal with lies as their intellectualism dictates that it will be a waste of time.

Their emotions might not be as in sync, however, given Aquarius’ tendency to seem cold. Meanwhile, as a mutable sign, Gemini may have an unstable emotional state.

 #3 Gemini – Aries

A great match, the Ram and the twins are highly compatible, based on the signs’ tendency to be both intellectuals. Gemini values knowledge and rationality – traits very apparent with Aries. Both are energetic and enjoy the fact that there is finally someone who can keep up with your sense of adventure. Gemini is a conversationalist while Aries is an instigator, though not as vocal as the counterpart, always have thoughts to share. This match-up will not run out of ideas to discuss and debate, and activities to do and participate.

Gemini is air and Aries is fire, and their sexuality will have the same effect as air amplifies the fire. Aries’ sexual prowess and Gemini’s imaginative mind will make them try everything that springs to mind beneath the sheets – even to a point that the public may perceive their lack of inhibitions and spontaneity when it comes to sex as different. This will also manifest in their thirst for exhilarating experiences and adventure.

Their energy, creativity, and passion will manifest in the bedroom if harnessed positively, else, will create an aggressive and hostile environment. They are good in communicating but are not as efficient when expressing their feelings. Despite these, both signs are not needy or emotional and tend to shrug off misunderstanding, forgiving and forgetting. The tandem just needs to learn to communicate their emotions better and appreciate their similarities instead of mulling over the differences.

#4 Gemini – Leo

Air amplifies fire – and this is the dynamics Gemini provides Leo. Gemini supplies the fun, Leo provides the intensity. Leo is a fixed sign and a natural leader bound by routines that could benefit with having a mutable and fun Gemini to lighten things up. Both are very sociable, and Leo’s big personality just strengthen the Twins’ audience impact that it is inevitable these two will be the center of attention in gatherings

Together, the two can be a great tandem when trying to achieve goals and accomplishing projects. Geminis despite their brilliance are a bit short-sighted, Leos on the other hand never lose sight of a vision, which makes the partnership motivating and even competitive for both parties. It can get draining when the couples’ ambitions went over their head that they won’t have quality time left. Gemini gives compliments well-appreciated by Leo who needs assurance for their ego.

It spells trouble when Leo’s king persona stifles Gemini’s wings. Gemini’s ever-changing moods and plans will be seen as a lack of commitment by the lion. If the lion loosens its grip and the twins assure Leo of their devotion – they are likely to be able to establish a strong relationship that maximizes each other’s strengths.

#5 Gemini – Gemini

No one can understand a twin better than another twin. Yes, they can especially understand the very dynamic highs and lows, all the energy, and the quirky and erratic tendencies.  It’s the perfect scenario – or so we thought. Having two pairs of twins equals four individuals in one relationship – and things can easily get unpredictable and moody.

Bubbly, fun and fast-paced: a Gemini couple

Being both of mutable characteristics and air signs, change is the recurring theme of this match. Playfulness is often a positive characteristic that allows people to have fun all the time and cope with difficulties minus the trauma – but with the Gemini kind of erratic playfulness, the matchup can create a turbulent ride. It would be exciting for two fun characters initially, with road trips, fun and new experiences, travels, adrenaline rush, kinky sex, the works.

It becomes a liability if it continues for too long  – any relationship needs some sort of consistency and routine to work. Further, adult responsibilities are added into the mix if it’s a marriage and there is a/are child/ren involved. Love and fun alone ain’t enough to make a long-haul relationship. Too much change can take its toll on finances, kids’ development, and even basic housekeeping. There is a need to control the need to verbally communicate each other’s opinions and convictions too staunchly to avoid heated arguments. If both twins are able to adjust a bit and learn a tad bit of structure and sense of responsibility as the relationship matures, this partnership can be both fun and fulfilling.

#6 Gemini – Sagittarius

The twins and the archer are into taking things lightly – whether it is life decisions, relationships or sex. This is where they see eye-to-eye, none of those complicated and intense sensations. Both are carefree to take life one day at a time. This match has a strong intellectual connection from which, through time, develop into emotions.

Gemini loves communicating and Sag loves philosophy – these two will mentally stimulate each other through discussions that will just strengthen attraction with each other. Gemini might seem shallow and the archer too passionate, but should they find to have disagreements in their debates, their personas allow them to shrug off these differences and forgive easily. Gemini is air and Sagittarius is fire – both of which are adventurous, there will never be dull moments in this pairing. Sex will feature a child-like characteristic, easy and not forced, they will even enjoy it with much gusto and creativity.

Both impulsive and up for an adventure, they might be unable to achieve goals especially career and finance-related ones in the name of fun. Both also tend to be unwilling to commit and find monogamy boring which might be problematic. Should the two be able to calm down their thirst for risks and unpredictability, this match will be proven to be a very fun relationship that invests their time on positivities and learning through experience instead of focusing on the bad and wallowing on it.

#7 Gemini – Scorpio

Differing personalities of intense personalities but with great chances of chemistry. Gemini is air, Scorpio is water; Gemini is mutable, Scorpio is fixed.

Both will be turned on by each other’s unpredictable personality – Gemini up for fun, Scorpio up for anything sexy and primal. Sex will be fantastic even if Scorpio tends to be a little too clingy for Gemini, the twins will appreciate Scorpio’s sexual appetite and instinctiveness when it comes to intimacy. This is much welcomed by Gemini who will feel as if they are experiencing sexual pleasure for the first time.

Scorpio as intense and passionate may find Gemini a bit uncommitted to the relationship. Gemini will find Scorpio possessive and even suffocating. However, once Gemini identifies that the relationship and the partner is worth it, will submit to their emotions. Scorpio, on the other hand, needs to learn how to be more trusting and enjoy the free, fun-loving partner that they have.

 #8 Gemini – Cancer

The crab is a fixed water sign, while the twins is a mutable air sign. Changing moods and extreme feelings can be a recipe for disaster. The difference between the two can be quite intense that it will cause challenges and misunderstandings between the two.

The intellectual Gemini’s communication style cannot be appreciated by the emotionally-driven Cancer. Cancer craves closeness – something that Gemini does not quickly open up to. Gemini loves socializing which is not aligned with Cancer who tends to be introverted and find this as a source of jealousy. Gemini loves adventure while Cancer enjoys home creating rifts in shared activities. Sex may likewise be unequally satisfying as Cancer yearns for a deeper connection while Gemini views sex as a fun activity.

This match needs mindful adjustment from both parties to compromise. While Gemini needs to adjust to be more grounded and feeling, Cancer needs to be more open to new experiences and also train their intellect to find a common ground.

 #9 Gemini – Taurus

An earth and air pairing, mutable Gemini will put fixed Taurus on a ride of the lifetime, as the bull grounds the always-running-around twins. This match-up can be a case of opposites attract or just down-right havoc.

Articulate, quick-witted and well-spoken Gemini loves knowledge and ideas, quite different from Taurus slow and steady charm and concept of earthly possessions and pleasure. When it comes to sex, Gemini is game for anything and everything – even if it’s a quickie in the bathroom stall – and Taurus is just not. Taurus may seem like a drag for the always excited and looking for fun Gemini, and Taurus is racking his brains trying to keep up. At its worst, tempers can come flaring from the two, and Gemini is not afraid to speak its mind and it can get ugly.

At it’s best, the two will find each other’s weakness as a place that they can complement with their strengths. Planning can be made fun through spontaneity, and adventures can be less dangerous through caution.

 #10 Gemini – Virgo

Gemini is a carefree and confident jokester who may be seen by Virgo, who is a shy virgin with major trust issues, as unreliable. Good thing both signs are mutable and good communicators which enable them to express their point of view, and both value practicality that they don’t get carried away by feelings when stating their cases. Both signs are from the less sexual bunch of the zodiac – their attraction is rooted from their passion for knowledge. Sex can be quite awkward buttressed by the fact that both have a tendency to lack emotionality. Intellectual connection can develop into intimacy and loving feelings between the two can be learned through time.

Virgo is an earth sign – characterized by stability and slow but sure processes. Virgo tends to analyze – even overthink – and is quite the perfectionist which can be frustrating for the quick-witted Gemini, Virgo will, on the other hand, find Gemini quite careless. Decision-making can be a struggle once Virgo sees Gemini as hot air with too much talk and less action.

Gemini must adjust to understand Virgo’s need for stability, after all, the real world can’t operate if everything solely is decided on based on whims or moods. Virgo wants security and things to fall into place – which necessitates some level of thoroughness and planning.

 #11 Gemini – Capricorn

Both are ambitious signs that operate at different speeds – Gemini is air and fast, Capricorn as an earth sign is thorough and slow. They both want success in their life but the means aren’t the same – Capricorn believes in hard work and structure – traits seen as too conservative and uncreative by Gemini. Gemini yearns speed and fun, reaching goals through connections, and can be a bit reckless – which isn’t exactly by the (Capricorn’s) book. Capricorn will view the twin’s technique to be a bit half-baked.

Intimacy can be challenged with the twins finding the sea goat as a bit or a bore and stiff. Capricorn, on the other hand, can get anxious trying to keep up with Gemini who wants nothing conventional in the bed room. Capricorn will find Gemini to be uncommitted and disconnected emotionally too. Flirty Gemini will not be tolerated by traditionalist and monogamous Capricorn.

The good thing about this match is that both learn lots of skills from each other, what the other’s strength is the other’s weakness. Capricorn can teach patience and perseverance, Gemini can teach innovation and efficiency.

#12 Gemini – Pisces

Gemini is one of the most rational signs, on the other hand, Pisces is emotional and romantic. Pisces’ symbol is two fishes going the opposite directions, paired with Gemini, the twins – so basically 4 beings are at play. Amplified by the fact that both are mutable signs, it could get moody and ‘bipolar’ if you will. Both signs will experience changes in their minds that will create tension in the relationship.

Gemini might feel overwhelmed with all the emotions coming from Pisces, making Gemini pull away, and in effect hurting a needy Pisces. Pisces might also find fun-loving and light-hearted Gemini to be too thoughtless, if not superficial, and Gemini would wish emotional and spiritual Pisces lighten up already and just enjoy the now. This will apply to their daily lives and sex lives. Both parties have a tendency to stray and traverse the infidelity path which will just prove this combo to be quite chaotic.

But should Gemini be willing to compromise and listen to Pisces, improve their communication and emotional outlets, then it will work somehow.

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I hope this short guide helps you to filter from the many fishes out there, please remember that astrological signs are merely guides – and not an exact science. Even if your partner or potential is way down in the rankings, there are ways to make a relationship work through compromise and communication.

Sagittarius | Capricorn | Aquarius | Pisces | Aries | Taurus | Gemini | Cancer | Leo | Virgo | Libra | Scorpio

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