Approaching , getting numbers and creating trust is mentioned alot but when it comes to sealing the deal how do you fair?
Actually getting a women into bed can prove difficult – this is another time like approaching when guys tend to freeze up and make a mountain out of a mole hill.
The ease with which you can transition into sex will depend on how smoothly the night has gone. If their has been little flirting , touching and sexual tension the jump to sex seems too far… If throughout the night you have been bridging the gap with good keno and some kissing then sex becomes a natural progression.
Even so… the line “let’s have sex” will still have some stigma attached to it.
I would suggest that you never let it come to this – women rarely agree to have sex with a guy from a rational intellectual point of view. It’s because they are aroused or in an emotional state. Getting a girl into bed involves the transition up a ladder – the first rung being eye contact across the room, the next rung of the ladder being the approach.
Most guys understand the first half of the ladder quite well but when they get up to the giddy heights of sexual transition most freak out and revert to horny desperate pleas for sex.
Most women do feel nervous during this first time with you as well so they will forgive a bit of hesitancy on your part.
Here’s how to make the night run smoothly for the two of you:
When I mentioned that women say yes to sex from an emotional point of view I meant it. You have to keep her in this “turned on” state which is especially important before hand.
The big mistakes men make before sex:
- They don’t assume that she want’s it
- They make her decide!
- They create big transition gaps
- They pull her out of state
- They get nervous and lose confidence
- Skipping out rungs on the transition ladder
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