How To Date A Single Mom

Dating single moms is a completely different kettle of fish to dating your average 25 year old single girl. Moms have to grow up fast and they just are not interested in all of the pickup artist games that you think will work so well.

Of course all women are different but this women you are trying to date will likely be very busy juggling work and kids.

Mothers tend to be efficient when it comes to dating, they have now learnt from experiences of the past and know what they want.

Don’t go insulting their intelligence by trying to play cute pickup games. The main thing single moms want from you is honesty.

Let them know where you are at with life – where you want to go and what you want out of the current dating experience.

She will likely be looking for something more long term. If I know whats on your mind you will be after a fun wild time with some sort of “milf” fantasy.

However you never know where this fling or date is going to go. It could lead to something more serious and if you are open to that make sure you communicate your emotions or change of emotions regularly.

Be patient with the mom you are dating, she will be confused between caring for her child and dealing with you trying to court her. This might come across as her not being interested so play the slow card and see where it gets you.

How to Date Single Moms – The Dragon

With seasoned single mothers you might fine she is very confident and starts to manipulate the situation. If you find things getting a little weird then don’t be afraid to pull out and find someone a little more tame. Remember she could be a SINGLE MOM for a reason. The dads long gone because of some crazy dragon underneath

How to Date Single Moms – Listen

The best thing you can do is listen – this single mom might be fresh of a divorce or harmful relationships which makes things easier for you as she will be looking for comfort. She will want to talk about it. Dont get jealous or take anything to heart just listen and it should all blow over.

Your Actions:

Sadly the little things that you do for her are going to be the ones that impress her the most. Showing her that you care by helping out with the kids when she is busy speaks volumes of your character.

  • PL

    Great insights Travis – Yeah I agree with the cooling off period!

  • Travis

    Thanks for the post. My $0.02 on a recently divorced single mom (i.e. less than 1 year divorced) would be to omve along. I’ve never had any luck with recently single females. I think they need a cooling off period. And ladies, no, I not chauvinistic. Same thing applies to recently single guys. (IMHO).

    -Travis