How to Use the Adult Friend Finder Member Search Section

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While you have the option to choose hookups from the What’s Hot section, another way you can be more specific is through the Member Search menu. Through this section, you can find who is online and see users who live close to you.

You have to admit that being able to narrow it down to that specific type of search makes looking for THE ONE quite easy, right? With just one click, you can find who’s online and maybe strike a conversation or you can opt to message someone who lives nearby for easier meet-ups at your local bar or restaurant.


These are the following subsections found under this option:

• Who’s Online
• New Matches
• Members Near Me
• VIP Members
• Hot or Not
• Advanced Search
• Browse
• Search Username

For New Matches down to VIP Members, you can filter search results with the following:

• Find a…: man, woman, couple (man/women, two women, two men) and TS/TV/TG
• Seeking…: same options as Find a…
• Between the ages of…: where you specify an age range
• Within…: specify a specific distance from where you live or choose based on country or state
• Join date
• Last login
• Show…: members online now, members with photos, etc. s

Who’s Online

Lists the users who are online in grid form. You can also filter the results here by your preferences which you can edit through My Account > Cupid Preferences. You have to pick a specific option that applies to you when it comes to:

• who you’re looking for (man, woman, couple, etc)
• age range
• distance from your current location

Those are the basic preferences that you need to fill up, but there are additional ones as well such as:

• race
• body type
• sexual orientation
• marital status

In addition, you can sort results by:

• distance
• last visit
• newest members

New Matches

This subsection presents you with new people who match the specifications you listed down in Cupid Preferences. So, you can check back on this page often to see new faces and possible hookups.

Members Near Me

Lists the members who are closest to your current location. You can sort the results through distance, last visit and new members.

VIP Members

View VIP members who you might be interested in getting connected with.

Hot or Not

You get to vote on whether a picture presented is Hot or Not. Those that you tagged as Hot will be added to your Hotlist.

Advanced Search

In this section, your search options are divided between basic user and premium user. As a basic user, you can do the following searches:

Search by Username


• I’m looking for a
• Man
• Group
• Woman
• Couple (2 women)
• Couple (man/woman)
• Couple (2 men)

• Seeking
• Men
• Groups
• Women
• Couples (2 women)
• Couples (man/woman)
• Couples (2 men)

• Between the ages of – where you input a range. For example, you can choose between the ages of 25 to 35.

• Within – choice between searching by distance from your location or by country or state.

• Show
• Members online now
• Members broadcasting now
• Members with photos
• Members with video
• Highlighted members
• Verified members
• Gold members
• VIP members

• Join Date
• 3 days or less
• 1 week or less
• 2 weeks or less
• 1 month or less
• 2 months or less
• 3 months or less

• Last Login – same options as Join Date and a useful choice when narrowing down those who are actively using the site. Besides, would you expect someone to return your message if the last time they’ve logged in was months ago? Most likely, you’d choose those who have been active for days or for a few weeks.

When you’re subscribed to AFF on a paid basis and are a Gold member, these are the additional options you can use for your search:

• Race
• American Indian
• Hispanic
• Asian
• Middle Eastern
• Black
• Mixed
• Caucasian
• Other
• East Indian

• Sexual Orientation
• Straight
• Bi-sexual
• Bi-curious
• Gay

• Body Type
• Average
• Ample
• Slim/Petite
• A little extra padding
• Athletic

• Male endowment
• Short
• Long
• Average
• Very long

• Width
• Short
• Long
• Average
• Very long

• Circumcised

• Height – you can specify a range

• Eye Color
• Black
• Brown
• Blue
• Hazel
• Green
• Gray

• Glasses
• Glasses
• Either
• Contacts
• None

• Hair Color
• Black
• Blonde
• Brown
• Grey
• Platinum Blonde
• Red/Auburn
• Salt and Pepper
• Silver
• White
• Other Hair Color
• Hair? What Hair?

• Hair length
• Long
• Medium
• Short
• Crewcut
• Shaved
• Receding
• Bald

• How they swing
• Sex with others
• Man only has sex with others
• Just watching others
• Woman only has sex with others
• Touching others but no sex
• Not applicable
• Sex with your partners only

• Smoking
• Non-smoker
• Heavy smoker
• Light/social smoker
• Cigar/pipe smoker

• Alcohol
• Don’t drink at all
• Light/social drinker
• Heavy drinker

• Drugs
• Don’t use drugs
• Some recreational drug use
• Heavy recreational drug user

• Marital status
• Single
• Separated
• Married
• Attached
• Divorced
• Widowed

• Children
• Does not have children
• Has children, but not at home
• Has children at home
• Has children, sometimes at home

• Wants children
• Might want to have children
• Does not want to have children
• Wants to have children
• Happy with what they have

• Language(s)
• Chinese (Cantonese)
• Japanese
• Chinese (Mandarin)
• Korean
• Dutch
• Portuguese
• English
• Spanish
• French
• Swedish
• German
• Tagalog
• Italian

• Education
• Some high school
• Associate degree (2 years college)
• Master’s degree
• High school graduate
• BA/BS (4 years college)
• PhD/MD/Post doctorate
• Some college
• Some grad school
• JD
• Current college student
• Current grad school student

• Religion
• Agnostic
• Muslim
• Pagan
• Atheist
• Jewish
• Confucian
• Buddhist/Taoist
• Protestant
• Alternative
• Catholic
• Spiritual
• Other
• Hindu
• New Age
• Christian

• Willing to relocate

• Astrological sign

• Chinese Zodiac sign

You can also save this search to preserve your preferences.


Presents a listing of sex partners you can find from all over the world. Just click on the country you’re interested in and view the possible list of candidates. For US and Canada users, a list of states are given which you can use.

Search Username

This option shows a search bar where you can type in the username of a specific account you’re looking for.

AFF provides a variety of search options so you truly get the results that you want. You won’t have to feel as if you’ve wasted your time on the site when you could simply choose to have users living close by revealed to you. It does make dating online quite the convenience, right?

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