I want my ex back

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One day I woke up with complete clarity – I had been feeling shitty for months all because my boyfriend left my for my best friend. Not only was I betrayed by my best friend but my boyfriend too – we used to do everything together, we had so much fun and now I know why they always liked hanging out!
It get’s me very mad just thinking about all those times we had together and all of those times they would have been flirting behind my back.
So now that the two most important people to me have left my life I am left feeling super average.
The worst part about this whole thing is that all I really want is my ex boyfriend back – I know that sounds really weak. I mean he left me for my friend but I know deep down she is just manipulating him… it’s what she does.
He has even told me that he still has feelings for me so I am not going to give up hope that he will get his senses back and return to me.
So I am really just asking for some advice on how a guy would be feeling in this situation and what to do next… Why would a guy leave his girlfriend when he still feels love for her?
It’s hard to believe because we had so many great time together. Perhaps he just got very bored.
So anyway I woke up a few days ago and was saying out loud over and over… I want my ex back, I want him back, I’ll get him back… It was weird. Something must have happened in my dream or during my sleep. It just felt right for him to be with me.
I new she wasn’t right for him. But I know I cant go rushing in their and force him to change his mind. I have to figure out why he left in the first place.
So in my efforts to get my boyfriend back I began listing the possible reasons why he left and what I could do to change his mind about the whole thing.
I pretty much came up blank on ways I could convince him to come back. I knew that I had been pretty distant and I didn’t really make him feel special and valued that was because this was reciprocated by him.
The relationship just kind of got stale – it wasn’t that we would fight all the time… the relationship just got a little boring.
But now that he is having such a great time with this girl I’m not sure why he would want to come back to me.
To get my ex back I guess I am going to have to show him how much fun I can be. But I’m guessing there are plenty of other things I need to do. It’s all pretty daunting especially as my two best friends have left.

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  1. Me and my husband have been married of 22 years together 23. After i found him texting a coworker and questioned him, he said they were just friends but 3 wks later he told me he didnt love me anymore that he was in love with her and that i made him feel bad about himself and she didnt. He left home for 2 wks came home and left 2 wks later. Been gone for 3 1/2 months now. Hes been going to bars, calling women, lying like crazy, drinking like a fish and hasn’t spoken to the kids the whole time hes been gone. His whole personality has changed. We believe he is going thru some sort of mid life crisis. Its crazy, he is acting like a person that we don’t know anymore. Is it possible to get my marriage back. Because I know that he is going thru some crazy thing right now I’m finding it very hard to let go. I still love him. How can I save my marriage and family when my husband is in the middle of a mid life crisis and wont listen to my or anyone else until i met Dr. Ikhine the spell caster who help me to regulate our marriage and now we are living happily together again contact him for help if you are having similar situation on agbadado@gmail.com or call him on +2347060552255

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