Is your dating sexually motivated?

Why Do People Cheat

GUYS

Q

Is your dating sexually motivated?

A

– yes I’m only in it initially for the sex
– partially I am also interested in other aspects of her personality
– no it’s never sexually motivated, I am looking for the right long term partner

GIRLS

Q

Is your dating sexually motivated?

A

– yes I’m only in it initially for the sex
– partially I am also interested in other aspects of her personality
– no it’s never sexually motivated, I am looking for the right long term partner
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It will be interesting to see the differences in perception and motivation initially. There is no question that sex is a major motivator when choosing a girlfriend or becoming attracted initially.
Some would argue that it is the only important motivation that exists. But in this society we live in there is so much more than just reproduction to think about. Can we put aside lust for two seconds while we choose a truly suitable mate or are we running this selection game on autopilot?
I know I would hate to think that my balls are doing all the choosing… what if they choose wrong? Once I come out of the lust filled insanity of the initial male attraction will I see a women in front of me with no truly compatible traits?
There is a lot to be said for a rational mind during the flirtation phase but the trouble is you require the sexual motivation to successfully flirt with women. It’s somewhat of a paradox.

The answer here is
YES! – of course it is. Evolution has hard wired us to be motivated to reproduce and the main reason for dating is to at some stage in the future do just that!
So to say otherwise is just missing the point.
The interesting area of study here is when you start to look into relationship dynamics. Let’s assume  you plan to stay together for a long time (not get divorced)
The foundation of a happy marriage is:
compatibility
common interests
communication
also required: sacrifice, understanding etc etc
Now here is another question!
How many of these traits are you really interested in while you eye up the ass of the girl at the bar?
The initial motivation and attraction emotions do not aid you when it comes to long term mate choice. In most cases this sanity is only restored some time later when lusts abates and the clouds of sexual desire dissipate.
 

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