Do you justify things in your life that just don’t deserve to be there, have not earnt their right or dont aid you in any way?
You might think that you “cant live without it” but the reality is that you feel shit 30 minutes later when your still stuck in traffic with a headache and sweaty balls.
Let’s be honest here!
Coffee, Sav blanc and Jack Daniels taste like shit!
You justify the taste or at least your brain pleasure center justifies the foul bitter taste of poison because it knows pleasure is just around the corner.
What would a life completely void of poison look like?
You dont know – because you have never gone a day without any.
I use the word poison because alcohol (ethanol) is obviously classed as a poison. However many like to state that the dosage makes the poison (http://www2.potsdam.edu/hansondj/Controversies/1119724191.html)
however – Ethanol (alcohol) is a psychoactive drug that has a depressant effect.
It think you get the point… let’s move on.
What other parts of your life to you justify?
What areas of your life right now would you LOVE to be different but see no escape. You justify the pain because you don’t understand that there are any other possibilities or options for you.
The worst is if you know that there are other options but you are to scared to seek them. An example would be a job that you hate.
You justify going to work because you have to earn money to pay for bills. This is the financial reality of life but there are other options available to you.
Do you justify the women or man in your life? – Some relationships should have ended years ago. You justify there existence because you are to scared to leave the familiar. It’s time to weigh up the positives and negatives of your current relationship…
Some relationships are so poisonous they are tough to comprehend from the outside. Sometimes you just cant understand why two people are still together in what seems like a slow death.
Did I hear you say “coffee is an acquired taste!”
Yeh I hear ya – some wine is actually worth drinking but in most cases if you avoid alcohol for at least 3 months you will understand what I am talking about. It’s just not worth it.
Is your relationship starting to look and feel like slow death? It’s not going to change until you do something about it. If your not happy there is a very good chance your gf wont be happy either!
She will leave eventually or make your life a living hell in the process. You have to either work out the reasons why the relationship isn’t working and deal with them or cut ties and find someone more compatible.
There is a whole new world out there! Sure it will be lonely at first but you will be able to experience the wonder of new love again. Surely that’s worth fighting for.
If your justifying the taste of coffee in the morning and a shit sexless marriage at night perhaps it’s time to be honest with yourself.