Finding the One by Astrological Signs: Sagittarius


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November 22 – December 21

Sagittarius is represented by the Archer or the Centaur, and are the mutable bunch of the fire signs. The freedom loving archer is often seen as extroverted, energetic, naturally curious and generally positive individuals. They have a lust for life and traveling driven by their interest in learning that they can’t stay at one place if their life depended on it.

If given enough life experiences, Archers can be some of the wisest folks out there who live their lives with least resistance, letting life take its course. Playfulness and sense of humor are their most known qualities, coupled with an optimism that allows them to take life in strides, not allowing problems and setbacks get in the way. They are also generous and altruistic individuals who might give too much of themselves.

These seemingly innocent and even positive traits, however, can be twisted and manifest as a weakness for these archers too. Their love for freedom and play makes them quite inconsistent, unrealistic, and out of touch with reality that requires stability and responsibility. They tend to take things too lightly preferring to use humor to get rid of the somber mood, but sometimes it can be taken too far, making them tactless, hurting other people without meaning to.

Careers perfect for a Sagittarian are those which allow them to move constantly, not tied up in the confines of a cubicle. As motion is important to them, it seems that money behaves the same way for them – they earn and spend as they please, not always thinking about security or the pros of having a safety net.

Sagittarius for Partners

When it comes to love and relationship, Archers operate with the same playfulness they do with all other facets of their life. They love having fun activities in their relationship, preferring to go on adventures, traveling the world and learning new things while at it, and trying to do outdoor activities and sports.

Sex is likewise characterized with playfulness allowing lots of room for experimenting sexually. However, they delineate sex from love and operates that some sex are just for sex’s sake and is just meant to be taken for what it is, play. Their highly extroverted nature allows them to meet as many people as they want, socializing, flirting and just having a good time. Casual dating is something too familiar with our friendly archer.

As with how they find people to flirt and fling with, falling in love may come quickly for Sags too. Once decided that they are in love, they are faithful and devoted, and the Fire comes out with a tendency to fight for the person he/she loves. The common problem rests with the Archer taking things too lightly making their partner question their reliability.

Sagittarius Men

Centaurs can be players and can fall in love quickly, according to Astrology Zodiac Signs. Who can blame him, as he is always curious to learn things, and learning about people is something he is genuinely interested in too. With his big smile, hearty laugh and stories, one cannot refuse a Sag man’s offer. Dates will never be boring, with the archer always opting for the off-the-beaten-path adventure instead of traditional date nights. He does not hunt for love though, he stumbles upon them, meeting droves of people throughout his adventures, travels and life in general, he’ll meet a few with whom he’ll hit it off with.

Jake Gyllenhaal, born December 19
Jake Gyllenhaal, born December 19

Once he’s finally resolved that he loves someone, the fire element kicks in and he’ll take the challenge of getting into someone’s heart and life fervently. He is not a very good liar, and will just avoid doing so to prevent issues. He will be loyal and dedicated, allowing you to trust him, but he can be flaky in some aspects too with his tendency to be too idealist and unreliable.

His mutable characteristics make him easily lose focus and can be childish, not very nice qualities for a man especially when one is looking for a long-term relationship.

When it comes to sex, it will be fun and unpredictable. Being a bit of player, he’s had a pretty good practice with satisfying their partners, and based on one’s principles, this can be taken positively or negatively. But any rational individual will love being satisfied in bed, so let’s just take the good.

Sagittarius Women

Women archers are fun and sociable, chances of meeting one in a sports bar, drinking on an old-fashioned or beer as she talks and chummies with everyone there, is quite a probability. She loves freedom and adventure, so to get to know her and seduce her eventually, one must keep in mind to keep her wild alive through an adventure, outdoors or sports-type kind of date. She can fall in love easily but sustaining it is a different story altogether.

Vanessa Hudgens, born December 14
Vanessa Hudgens, born December 14

Always a free-spirit, she will not settle into a relationship if she knows she will lose her freedom by doing so. She ensures this before deciding to get into a serious relationship as she knows too well that it is her life’s non-negotiable. Should she find herself in such a situation with her current relationship, she will not bat an eyelash and leave, which is one of the reasons why Sag women may go through multiple relationships in their life.

Sex will be wonderful in a funny and klutzy way, and her confidence will flow as she laughs it off. Intimacy coupled with this confidence makes her a very wonderful partner, allowing both her and partner to relax and enjoy sex as it is meant to be.

Unfortunately, her unreliable, clumsiness and too focused on adventure mindset makes her withdrawn from reality and daily life’s practicalities.

Sagittarius Compatibility with Other Signs

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Compatibility of star signs is illustrated in an article at Metaphorical Platypus, where two studies were used to quantify the compatibility between signs. A study by Sachs (1998) and Castille (2000) was conducted in Switzerland and France to review significant results using marriage and divorce statistics as to which astrological signs are most compatible with each other.

Combined with information gathered from iZodiac,, Astrostyle, and Compatible Astrology, listed are the compatibility rankings of each sign vis-à-vis the Archer.

#1 Sagittarius – Aries

A fiery pairing, this partnership elicit a yin-yang effect of complementing each other. Though both fire signs, Aries is a cardinal sign who like to initiate and be the boss, meanwhile, Sagittarius is a mutable sign – more fluid, allowing spontaneity into their systems and would benefit highly having someone lead it, and are comfortable merely following.

Both enjoy physical activities and lust for life, ensuring that there’s no boring moment in the relationship. Neither are rushing towards serious relationship commitment thus both do not get too clingy with each other. Both are highly charismatic and their social circles will admire the healthy dynamic of this match. Sagittarius will enjoy whatever changes and adventure Aries initiates. This works just as advantageously for their intimacy which tends to playful thanks to cheerful Sagittarius who can help relax the very competitive and passionate ram.

Differences will arise as a matter of strong conviction and philosophy, but given neither are too emotional this works for both parties as they don’t tend to hold grudges after misunderstandings. Despite this, both can be quite warm once in a relationship. Sagittarius will play a major role in extinguishing conflict as it is this same playfulness that can mitigate the tension brought about by strong conviction held by both signs.

#2 Sagittarius – Leo

These two signs are both fire signs, making them optimistic and energetic creating a fun relationship atmosphere. Sagittarius is a mutable sign, allowing fixed Leo to take charge of the relationship. As fire signs, they share warmth which will be exhibited in their relationship. As for the sex, two fire signs make it hot – they see each other as a safe place to manifest their sensuality and kink.

A pairing of two highly sociable and personalities, these two will love parties and social gatherings so much. Leo will catch the room’s attention with their roaring persona and impressive achievements, while people will get magnetized by Sagittarius’ charisma, wit, and antics. The archer is one of the signs who are less likely to be offended by Leo’s seeming arrogance, if anything they will even find the humor in it, unafraid to call out when the lion when needed. Being both extroverted, they understand the need for social circles, and will not be threatened or jealous. Both likewise have the gift of gab, making communication and expressing their emotions relatively easy within the relationship.

While both are courageous, Sag does not always agree with Leo trying to confront everything when it is easier to just let things pass. The lion, despite being adventurous, likes the comfort of his pride – the same big set of people he always spends time with, contrary to the archer, who brought about by their mutable nature enjoys a nomadic lifestyle to experience more things and meet more people. But given their strong communication skills, these two are expected to come up with a compromise that can cater to both of their passions.

#3 Sagittarius – Sagittarius

Nothing can quite get an archer than a fellow bow-yielding fellow. They embrace freedom and independence and in love, only another individual with the exact same values will understand this – after all, relationships and love entail a level of co-dependence. Two Sags can explore the world together yet giving each other the space to have fun and socialize and feel as if they’re doing it independently. This match up will live a Carpe Diem kind of life, experiencing and discovering everything that the world has in store.

Their energy will manifest in every aspect of their life, not just their jet-setting and their social lives. Sex will be amazing, wild, playful and full of experimentation – high school love vibes, when nothing is taken too seriously, but everything is enjoyed and savored, threesomes, polyamory, and open relationships is a definite possibility with this duo. What others may perceive as shallowness with the archer, another archer will just completely understand, their emotionality and rationality in the same wavelengths.

Their mutable traits will also affect other facets that would appreciate stability. Managing finances can be a bit burdensome with how happy-go-lucky they can be. Going on to the next level of the relationship like marriage and family might also be problematic. Despite these shortcomings, it is also their adaptability to changes and unending optimism that can support their relationship should the going gets tough.

#4 Sagittarius – Libra

Libra is air, while Sagittarius is fire. Further, one is cardinal, the other mutable. What might seem like a clash of opposites, might actually work. Libra loves the fine things, Sagittarius the fun stuff. It could be the makings of an awesome relationship filled with good times.

Both charismatic and outgoing, the flirting phase will be electric and fun. Going out will be the on the agenda a lot of times. The bedroom will be full of experimentation, with Sag initiating these, and Libra following along, enjoying the lightness and stress-free nature of sex.

Commitment poses a threat though, as your shared interest may seem to be on the superficial and material side of life. Further, thorough and calculating Libra might seem like a bore for the always on the go and somewhat impulsive Archer. It is a matter of one toning it down a few notches and the other turning it up a few to meet in the middle and see eye-to-eye.

#5 Sagittarius – Gemini

The twins and the archer are into taking things lightly – whether it is life decisions, relationships or sex. This is where they see eye-to-eye, none of those complicated and intense sensations. Both are carefree to take life one day at a time. This match has a strong intellectual connection from which, through time, develop into emotions.

Gemini loves communicating and Sag loves philosophy – these two will mentally stimulate each other through discussions that will just strengthen attraction with each other. Gemini might seem shallow and the archer too passionate, but should they find to have disagreements in their debates, their personas allow them to shrug off these differences and forgive easily. Gemini is air and Sagittarius is fire – both of which are adventurous, there will never be dull moments in this pairing. Sex will feature a child-like characteristic, easy and not forced, they will even enjoy it with much gusto and creativity.

Both impulsive and up for an adventure, they might be unable to achieve goals especially career and finance-related ones in the name of fun. Both also tend to be unwilling to commit and find monogamy boring which might be problematic. Should the two be able to calm down their thirst for risks and unpredictability, this match will be proven to be a very fun relationship that invests their time on positivities and learning through experience instead of focusing on the bad and wallowing on it.

#6 Sagittarius – Cancer 

This partnership is a good match, but only until the merry-making ends. A water and fire match-up one may extinguish the other without meaning to. Fiery and mutable Sag fall in love quickly, and fade interest quick as fast – not enough time for the Crab to feel secure to invest their emotions in.

Homebody and naturally maternal Cancer loves home-making and cooking, which will be much appreciated by the happy-go-lucky Archer. Dinner parties will be delightful for the two – until Cancer finds itself retreating and needing much needed alone time to recharge – quite different from the perennially extroverted and jolly Sag. They can’t comprehend why one minute the crab is all up on high spirits and the next they’re hiding in their shells.

Cancer will find intimacy and passion lacking, something that the archer will not be able to see immediately. Sagittarians will find the crab moody, overly sensitive and a bit of a kill-joy. To the crab, the archer may seem shallow, lacking empathy and authenticity, and even childish.  Cancerians’ sense of nostalgia will be the downfall of the archer who tends to offend the crab through words, and these offenses will compound in their memories and will be mentioned when an argument arose.

#7 Sagittarius – Scorpio

It might seem like it’s not gonna work, but somehow it does. This pairing shall we say is one of two opposites in every way. Scorpio is intense, mysterious, dark, and Sagittarius is carefree, extroverted and can be quite a jokester. Scorpio will be fascinated with the excitement and child-like optimism of the archer. Conversations will be interesting between the two, further sex will come naturally as the physical attraction will be inevitable

But once the relationship gets deeper and serious, the disparity of the couple will become so apparent it might even control them. Trust will be the top issue in for these two as Scorpio’s possessiveness will suck the life out of the freedom-loving and fiery Sag. The same scenario will play in their sex lives, as the emotional and passionate scorpion will not connect on the deeper level with the archer, worse Scorpio will find Sag a bit shallow.

The key to making this work is to maintain the initial spark and attraction the two felt in the early phase of the relationship. Realize what interested them and loved about each other is a good reminder why it makes sense to make the relationship thrive instead of being pulled down by the differences.

#8 Sagittarius – Aquarius

Sagittarius is a fire sign while Aquarius is an air sign and the relationship between two individuals of these signs will be like how air affects fire. A creative and unique couple that loves independence, doesn’t know of limitations and can get competitive. Their great communication skills allow them to share ideas passionately, and both are non-emotional which makes the relationship fuss-free.  These two signs have a mutual admiration for each other’s traits and value freedom and spontaneity more than anything else. Adrenaline junkies, even what they do in bed is bound not to get boring.

It is their tendency to be both rational and independent that could also spell this duo’s downfall as the lack of emotionality and connectedness might affect the intimacy.

#9 Sagittarius – Virgo

An earth and fire pair of two mutable signs. These two clever individuals can talk about anything and everything that piques their interest – and this includes holistic health, fitness, and activism. Their attraction, however, may be only surface level.

Sagittarius is outgoing and adventurous, not exactly in congruence with introverted and productive Virgo. Virgo will have issues with the extraversion and the too carefree disposition. On the emotional aspect, these two are more analytical than feeling. Despite this, Virgo needs to feel some sort of emotional security from their partner – something that Sagittarius isn’t so interested in. Sexually, the difference becomes more apparent, Sagittarius may not be able to give or reciprocate the intimacy that the virgin yearns for. Virgo might feel disrespected or unimportant for Libra causing rifts in the relationship.

#10 Sagittarius – Taurus

An earth and fire, and fixed and mutable signs, the difference between the two is not necessarily sun and moon – but Venus and Jupiter, their ruling planets. Sagittarius tend to be irresponsible and a jokester, which may be infuriating for the always dependable Taurus. Sagittarius will be likely bored with this match-up, Taurus, on the other hand, will be rattled with the tactlessness and recklessness of the archer.

Wary and restrained Taurus might learn a thing or two about the world sharing moments with carefree and optimistic Sag. Being with adventurous Sagittarius may keep Taurus away from the comforts of home but can be a way for Taurus to expand their horizons. Further, Sagittarians will super appreciate the bull’s financial know-how and loyalty. Sex will be fun once these two characters get past their differences with the bull’s steady sensuality and the archer’s surprising kink. 

#11 Sagittarius – Capricorn

At first, Capricorn will appreciate the lightness that Sagittarius brings, and on the flipside, the archer finds comfort in the stability of the sea goat. Extroverted, happy-go-lucky and fun-centric archer meets the methodical homebody and ambitious goat. Earth signs tend to be grounded people and revel in the idea of having a home base and roots, too much traveling can exhaust Capricorn. Sexually, it is not the best match, as Capricorn wants emotional bond and not just the physical satisfaction.The trust between these two signs will be low which makes then unlikely to learn from each other’s strengths and weaknesses. Capricorn finds a lack of authenticity coming from Sagittarius. Capricorn will also find the archer careless and impulsive, not benefiting his ambitions and drive. The trick to make this pair work is by not letting the honeymoon end and just appreciating each other’s strengths.

#12 Sagittarius – Pisces

One of the more difficult zodiac pairings, on the surface, the match seems wonderful and very attractive at that. As two individuals learn more about each other, they will see how wonderful each one is – however, the infatuation and fire will not last very long. Their sex life will be fun, but will also likely be erratic with unmatched expectations from both ends. Pisces will feel that Sag is too selfish and not sensitive to his/her satisfaction. The level of intimacy will seem lacking for Pisces who wants deep feelings and connection. Communication styles differ as well in terms of approach as the Sagittarius style may seem blunt or even offend the sensitive Pisces.

Values – especially those related to relationships and love will also be different – and Pisces might seem too needy and depressing for Sagittarius. Pisces will feel neglected and fall into a whirlpool of jealousy that only gets worse through time. These problems will likely recur throughout the relationship unless Sagittarius makes a deliberate effort to be more intentional and compromise.

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I hope this short guide helps you to filter from the many fishes out there, please remember that astrological signs are merely guides – and not an exact science. Even if your partner or potential is way down in the rankings, there are ways to make a relationship work through compromise and communication.


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