3 Asian Women To Avoid and Top 7 Asian Dating Websites

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Many men today are dating or considering dating Asian women. Here you’ll find everything you need to know, including: how Asian women differ from American women, how to approach and date an Asian woman, and where to find Asian women to date.

Why Date Asian Women?

The first question to ask is why you should date Asian women, aside from their obvious physical attractiveness. The easiest way to describe what dating an Asian woman is like is to imagine going back in time to the way that your grandparents or great grandparents dated. Imagine going back in time to when women were women and expected men to be men. The good news is that you don’t have to imagine. All you have to do is go on a date with an Asian girl.

Asian women are not entitled like so many women are in America today. Most of them are interested in you, instead of your social status or bank account. She may be ambitious and work, but she will never put her career over family. The family is of supreme value to Asian women. Most of them want to get married and have a family of their own. They are very respectful, particularly when it comes to elders. They are more submissive than American women, and they want a man that treats them well but knows how to take control. Instead of acting brash and hiding their feminity, they embrace it. They are as beautiful on the inside as they are on the outside.

If you are just looking for sex or a good time, you are wasting your time on these girls. They care for their reputation, and aren’t willing to ruin it for a good time. For a man looking for a special lady, however, they can be a wonderful companion and partner.

Of course, external beauty can’t be overlooked as a reason to date an Asian woman. Not only does she look beautiful now, but she will still be beautiful many years down the road. Perhaps the best part of dating a beautiful Asian woman is that her beauty doesn’t fade the way an American woman’s does. Gray hair, wrinkles, and twenty to thirty pounds of extra weight are much less common (or at least much more delayed) in Asian women than those in America. They seem to age with the same grace that they live their life with, and retain more beauty than American women do.

Dating Asian Women asian women

When you ask an Asian woman on a date, you should be specific. Ask her if she would like to go to dinner at a particular restaurant, or maybe for a picnic if the weather is nice. She genuinely wants to get to know you, so you’ll want to do something where there’s an opportunity for the two of you to talk. How expensive the date is doesn’t really matter. What matters is that you have a plan in place, which shows that you know how to take control of the situation. Offer to pick her up for the date. If she does drive to the date, be sure to walk her to her car after the date is over. If you take her home, walk her to her door. Be a gentleman.

Before the first date, or at least when you realize that she is someone that you would like to continue dating, it’s a good idea to find out more about her culture. Cultural differences can make interesting conversation, but learning at least a little bit about her culture on your own will show her that you are interested in her. It can also give you a better understanding of who she is, and keep you from making culture gap faux pas.

Asian women take family very seriously. If you want to seriously date an Asian girl, you will need to prioritize her family as well. Treat her family with respect and show concern for their well-being. As her parents get older, she will likely expect them to move in with you. Her commitment to home and family make her an excellent wife and mother, and she will likely be a skilled cook and housekeeper.

Asian women tend to move much slower than American women physically. Some Asian women won’t even hold your hand if you aren’t officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Be prepared to make the first moves when it comes to physical contact and moving your relationship forward. She won’t ask you if you want to date exclusively. She won’t call you up and ask you if you would like to go on a date. She won’t be the first to kiss you, or to say “I love you”. She expects you to make these moves without trying to move too fast and offending her.

You should also be prepared to wait a long time, possibly until marriage, to have sex with an Asian girl. If you pressure her into sex too early, it could be the end of your relationship. Not all Asian girls will wait until they get married, but it will still require a large degree of trust and commitment for her to have sex with you. Asian girls also differentiate “sleeping together” from sex. Just because she agrees to spend the night at your place doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to take it all the way. She may be comfortable with sharing your bed, but not having sex.

Of course, women who were born or raised in America may differ from the more traditional views on sex and dating. They may also be more focused on enjoying themselves than settling down with a husband. If you see an Asian girl dressing provocatively or dancing and drinking in the bar, chances are she has been “Americanized” These girls will likely have more liberal views on sex and relationships than their more traditional counterparts.

Asian women are usually more private than American women. You won’t find a lot of PDA (Public Displays of Affection) in Asian countries. Affection should be saved for when you are alone. Asian women also love a man who acts a little distant in public, but who is soft and affectionate in private.

Types of Asian Women to Avoid

While most Asian women are great, there are a few types that you should steer clear of. In every country and ethnicity, there are some people who have undesirable personalities. Here are the three types of Asian women that you should avoid.

1. The Gaijin (tourist) Hunter

Some women, called Gaijin hunters in Japan, are only interested in you because you are foreign. They are only interested in you because of your ethnicity or the country that you are from. When you don’t live up to what they think an American should do in a particular situation, they will be disappointed. You are an individual, and there is much more to who you are than where you are from. It’s fine for an Asian girl to be attracted to American men. Just like it’s fine for American men to be attracted to Asian women. However, ethnicity shouldn’t be the only reason that you are dating them.

2. Gold Digger

While most Asian women will be much more interested in who you are than how much money you have, there are gold diggers in Asian countries just like there are in America. They will expect you to pay for everything. They will opt for the most expensive things when you go out. They will expect you to buy them expensive gifts. You don’t have to have a ton of money to be a victim of a gold digger, you simply have to be willing to part with the money that you do have.

3. People Pleaser

Asian women are generally more concerned about pleasing others than American women, and they are more submissive as well. However, a people pleaser takes submissiveness and a willingness to please to an extreme. She will agree with anything that you say, and she will never have her own opinion about anything. She will live in fear of displeasing you, and she will never be her true self as a result. Assuming you want a partner and not a willing slave, you should avoid the people pleaser type.

Asian Dating Websites

Unless you live in a city with a large Asian culture, you probably won’t run into many Asian women in your day to day life, so it is much more effective to use online dating sites to find Asian girls. Many online dating websites allow you to search for a particular ethnicity. However, if you are serious about dating an Asian girl, you will be much more successful on sites that are devoted specifically to Asian dating.

Completely Free Asian Dating Websites


AsianDateNet is an easy to use free site for finding an Asian Date. You can easily search for a date by basic parameters like age, or you can choose a country or region including China, Japan, Louse, and Korea, as well as other Asian countries. Asiandatenet doesn’t have a lot of frills. However, it does have the basics that you will need to find an Asian date. The profiles are relatively simple, and the photos are smaller than on other sites. That being said, everything on the site is free. You can also read the site’s blog for tips about dating an Asian woman, which can be helpful, particularly if you are new to Asian dating.

Thai Flirting

Thai flirting has a more streamlined look than AsianDateNet. It is completely free as well, and it focuses solely on connecting Thai singles and foreigners. The profile is fairly extensive. It asks you about smoking and drinking habits, your profession, income, fashion sense, and hair length. You can skip these questions if you prefer. There’s also a section to include some interests. You simply check “I like” or “I don’t like” on a variety of interests including restaurants, cinema, and odd jobs. You can get very specific in what you would like in a partner when you are creating your profile. Children, income, marital status, drinking habits, and many more preferences are included to help you meet the right person, as well as an essay section about what you are looking for. Of course, you can simply skip this too.

Once you’ve created your profile, you will see your homepage. Your homepage will display anyone who has viewed your profile, as well as any messages or kisses you have received. There are three ways to find people on ThaiFlirting. First, you can do a basic search. Second, you can do an advanced search. The advanced search criteria include physical attributes, income, zodiac sign, and more. The third way is simply to view popular users. This will show you the top twenty users of the week. This may be a good place to start, particularly if you aren’t sure exactly what you are looking for.

ThaiFlirting is a well-designed user friendly site where you can find the Thai girl of your dreams. Regardless of whether you are seeking friendship, marriage, or something in between with a Thai beauty, you can find it at ThaiFlirting.

Date In Asia

Date in Asia is another free Asian dating site that is simple but functional. Many of the members of the site come from the Philippines, Thailand, and Korea. Anyone is welcome on the site, this is just the most common demographic. If you are seeking someone from these countries, this is a great site for you. If you aren’t, you can still find members from many other countries. There are between 6,000 to 10,000 members online at any time, giving you lots of people to connect with.

Date in Asia does what it can to keep its site “clean”. They don’t allow offensive language or statements like “I”m only looking for sex”. They seem particularly concerned with people sending or asking for money on the site. This isn’t allowed, and it will get you banned if you are reported. We’ve all seen sites where phrases like p2p (pay to play) and stories like “I need money because my grandmother just died” are common. Date in Asia strives not to be one of these sites, so you should be able to meet people that are interested in you, instead of your credit card.

Date in Asia also requires you to give an email address and a phone number when you are signing up. Very few dating sites do this, but it helps to verify that you are a real person. This is another sign that Date in Asia strives to keep their site scam free. When you begin filling out your profile, you’ll need to write a tagline and an “about me” essay. You’ll also be asked questions about your physical appearance, lifestyle, occupation, religion, and whether you would be willing to relocate to another country.

You’ll also have an essay section about what you are looking for in a partner, an age range for a partner, and whether you are looking for friendship, dating, networking, or other.

Once you’ve created your profile and uploaded a profile photo, you are ready to find an Asian girlfriend. You can visit other’s profiles and see who has viewed your profile. You can also go to the Shout section, which is a section of chat rooms within the site. Lobby, Travel, and games are a few of the rooms you can choose from.

Paid Membership Asian Dating Sites

East Meets East

East Meets East is free for women, but men have to pay a fee to connect with other users. However, creating a profile and conducting searches are free, so you can see if there is anyone that you would be interested in before paying. This site caters specifically to Asians who now live in urban areas, usually American cities. The site is meant to allow single Asians to connect with each other and go on dates. You can fill out your profile with the bare minimum of information if you choose. You can also let people know a bit about who you are by answering profile questions about your physical attributes, when you came to the West, and lifestyle habits.

The search function allows you to simply search by age or location or do an advanced search. Doing an advanced search gives you access to criteria like when they came to the country, languages they speak, faith, income, and the other usual suspects. The site seems to have a good following, particularly in any larger city. While it is supposed to be Asians seeking other Asians, there’s a wide list of countries, ethnicities, and languages to choose from, which suggests that it isn’t solely for Asians.

The site doesn’t have a ton of features, but it does allow you to smile at someone you are interested in and send messages. You can also see who visited your profile. It’s easy to use and it may just help you to find your next Asian girlfriend.

Asian D8

Asian D8 is a site specifically for Asians or those who would like to date Asians that live in the UK. Although the site doesn’t have a huge membership base, the fact that everyone lives in the UK gives you a good shot at finding people who aren’t too far from you. Asian D8 has a quick sign up process. It asks a few basic lifestyle questions including whether you have kids and your diet, and gives you an essay section to express who you are and what you are looking for in a partner. These things are required for you to be able to complete your profile, so every profile that you view has this basic information about the member. No scrolling through profiles with little to no information about the other person here.

There is a section that allows you to select criteria that you look for in a potential partner including religion and physical attributes. This is used to show you matches, but any messages and waves you receive are also prioritized according to this criteria. This should put members who are most likely to appeal to you at the top of your messages. Religion and special diets including vegan or fish and poultry are very important to some people when selecting a partner. If these things matter to you, this is a great site to find an Asian wife or girlfriend.

Asian D8 doesn’t just want you to chat online with other members. They want you to actually meet people. They make it safe and easy to do so by holding events. Many of these events are religion specific, which makes it easier to find someone with the same beliefs you do. These events consist of speed dating and padlock parties, which are essentially mixers, ping pong tournaments, and more.

You can sign up for a profile for free, but you’ll have to pay to actually communicate with other members. A Plus membership allows you to access to the mobile app, unlimited messages to other paying members, who’s viewed your profile, and a 10% discount on any event that you attend.

A premium membership allows people with a free profile to respond to your messages, and it gives you a 20% discount on any events that you attend.

Asian Dating

Asian Dating is one of the larger Asian Dating websites. You can use the site for free, but you have to pay for some features. They have over 2.5 million members, which is a large dating pool for a niche site. Asian Dating offers more features than most of the other sites.

The profile for Asian Dating is very extensive. It goes into detail about your physical features, even asking ladies for a bust measurement, lifestyle preferences, cultural preferences, religion, language, pets, and more. There’s also an essay “about me” section, as well as an essay section about what you are looking for in a partner. There’s also an extensive personality section, an interests section, and the ability to add “cupid tags”. Cupid tags can help you appear in search results of someone with a common interest.

The site takes all this information, and uses it to find matches for you. You also have a section that allows you to place your own parameters on who you match with. Age, appearance, lifestyle, nationality, and willingness to relocate can all be selected. Instead of having to search through tons of profiles to find someone you are interested in, the site’s matching system does it for you. This saves you time, and gives you more time to actually connect with people. There is also an English language ability filter, so language barriers aren’t a problem.

Asian Dating has three membership tiers. The first is the free membership. The free membership includes:

  • Ability to show interest
  • Ability to reply to messages from paid members

Gold membership includes:

  • Instant messaging
  • Personality profile
  • Ability to include personal information in messages
  • Profiles appear above free profiles in search results

Platinum membership includes:

  • Ability to watch profile videos
  • Ability to send and receive video messages
  • Profile above free and Gold members
  • Ability to translate messages into other languages

Asian Dating also allows you to do an advanced search based on appearance, lifestyle, nationality and culture, and English language proficiency. You can also search by cupid tags. Asian Dating is one of the best sites to use if you are serious about finding an Asian girlfriend.

Asian Date

Asian Date allows you to quickly sign up for an account without any information except linking your Facebook account. Once you are on the site, you see lots of Asian beauties willing to live text chat or video chat via camshare. It seems too good to be true. Beautiful women with very high quality photos. Apparently doing nothing but waiting by the computer to talk to you, considering they will reply to you very quickly.

The only catch is that it costs you credits for each minute that you chat. You can also play mini games while you chat. This is a good idea, and something other dating sites would do well to incorporate. Simple games like tic tac toe can help break the ice and make you more comfortable. Asian Date is a great site if you believe that all of these ladies are simply seeking the pleasure of your company. If you are lonely and have money to spend on chatting, Asian Date is an ok site. If you are hoping to actually meet someone for a relationship, I would steer clear of this one.

Asian Dating Apps

You can also find your next love interest with Asian dating apps. EastmeetsEast has an app available for apple devices. Asian D8 has an app available for Android and Apple devices. The questionable AsianDate also has an app available. Since these apps are very similar to their website counterparts, we’ll move on to other Asian dating apps.

 Asian Mingle

Asian Mingle is available on Google Play and Itunes. Asian Mingle focuses on videos instead of extensive profiles. This allows you to get a better feel for who someone is than words on a screen. 90% of communication is nonverbal, and videos allow much of this nonverbal communication to come through. Of course, they have the traditional profile system as well. Fill out your profile, add photos and/or videos, and even tags that help you show up in others searches. It may take a bit of time for your profile photos to be approved, because they have to go through an actual human moderator. While no one wants to wait for anything these days, at least you know the profiles on the site have been checked out by a real human instead of a computer.

Asian Mingle has a system similar to Tinder, but it seems more relationship focused. You watch a video of someone that interests you or view their profile, and you have an opportunity to like them by clicking the heart. If you like each other, then you’ve made a match. You are free to communicate with messages, photos, and videos.

Asian Mingle also has a variety of chat rooms including local, world, and adult. Chat rooms can be a great way to meet new people, and get a feel for how they interact with others. It’s a great way to make new friends, and maybe even find a date. Asian Mingle has also recently introduced Flash chat. It’s similar to Snapchat, because your text, photo, or video will automatically delete after a certain amount of time.

There isn’t an advanced search feature like you see on most dating apps. The other downside is that some of the things on the site cost coins. However, you can earn coins by uploading a video profile, inviting friends, and logging in each day. You also have the option to buy coins. Asian Mingle isn’t a perfect app, but it’s worth giving it a try. You can get started and get a feel for the app for free, and the chat rooms and video profiles do make the site stand out from the competition.


Badoo isn’t specifically an Asian dating app, but you can use it as one by selecting the location you are looking for in search. You can increase your success on Badoo by describing yourself as tall (6 ft or taller) and having an athletic body type. Keep in mind this won’t work if you are 5′ 3″ and thirty pounds overweight. However, if you are reasonably healthy, choose the athletic body type. Feel free to add a few inches to your height. You should also choose good profile pictures. You don’t have to look like a model. In fact, average guys can be some of the most successful on Badoo. Just be sure that your main photo is a clear picture of you smiling, and add a few action shots. You can also upload a video or two. If you choose to upload videos, they should be unique and memorable. Do you ride dirt bikes? Upload you climbing a hill or doing a jump. Play baseball? Upload a video of you hitting a home run. Fill out your profile, but don’t go overboard. You want people to read your profile and think “I would like to know more about them”. You don’t want them to think “I already know everything about them”.

You’ll need to verify either your mobile number or your Facebook account to begin chatting on Badoo. Linking it to your Facebook account makes it easier to upload pictures and videos and can help complete some of your profile, so it’s suggested to link your Facebook account if you have one.

Badoo Free Features

You can conduct searches of people nearby or around the world. The site will automatically show you people nearby. To view people in other locations, simply type the country or city you are interested in in the search box. You can also choose an age range. Badoo is very popular around the world, so it can be effective for meeting Asian women. The great thing about Badoo is that you can use it for local dating, International dating, and forming friendships. If you want to appear in the search results of Asian women, you may want to set your location as being in the country you are searching. This will allow your profile to show up in their nearby searches.

Badoo also has a section titled “Encounters”. This section allows you to view photos and like or not like them similar to Tinder. You can see who you liked, and any mutual likes in encounters. You can like others and send messages. However, to raise your popularity on Badoo, you may want to upgrade to some paid features.

Badoo Paid Features

Super Powers are one of Badoo’s paid features. Super powers are free for a few days after signing up. After that, you’ll have to pay to keep Super Powers. Super Powers allows you to:

  • Have your messages at the top of other user’s inbox
  • Know when someone reads your messages
  • See who liked you in Encounters
  • View more profile infomation
  • Conduct advanced profile searches
  • Access invisible mode and view other’s profiles without them knowing
  • Custom skins and other profile customization options

Rise and Spotlight are a few more Badoo features that can get you noticed. Spotlight gets your photo placed at the top of the people nearby page, and Rise Up puts your photo at the top of other’s search results in your area.

These Asian dating sites can help you find the Asian girl that you’ve been dreaming of. Sign up and start searching for Asian beauties for love, romance, or marriage today!

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