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ALT.com: Review of a BDSM Dating Site

“To each his own”, goes the overused expression. But when it comes to BDSM, people tend to point their nose where it’s not wanted. Good thing there’s ALT.com, were people with unconventional sexual tendencies can be themselves. It claims as the best BDSM dating site, giving members an opportunity to “find alternative, erotic, BDSM, bondage and fetish sex online”. It is where individuals with an adventurous taste for sex meet, hook up, and give rein to the sub or dominatrix in them.

Can ALT.com really give you the fetish play and fun that you are looking for?

Familiar Platform

As a subset of Adult FriendFinder and run by the same people behind the famous adult dating site, ALT.com has a fairly similar interface, which means that, if you have an account at Adult FriendFinder, you won’t have difficulty using the website. But even if you don’t, it is just as simple and easy to use. While some would say that the website falls short on esthetics, what with its somewhat cluttered layout, it does have the element that matters most — profile pictures that can only be described as erotic and arousing to the point that you almost feel like being punished. Do you hear the crack of a whip?

Fun Profile Parameters

Creating a profile is one of the most important elements in a dating site, and the most exciting part has always been telling the whole world what you are looking for and who you are interested in. ALT.com takes this feature to a whole new level, since you not only get to describe what you are down with, but also the exact fetishes that you are into. It has an extensive fetish checklist, including Arse Play, Breath Play, Bukakke, Collar and Lead / Leash, Arousal from Tears, Power Exchange, Rimming and Whips. Suffice to say it has all the BDSM activities you can possibly think of.

So choose your kinks wisely because it will serve as a parameter to finding your match and to advertise your quirks to other members. The easier to find you the sooner you can hook up.

Fetish Consent Worksheet

Because the best BDSM activities are played by the rules that you and your partner set, it is vital that you make your intentions clear. The Fetish Consent Worksheet lets you do just that. Here, you can openly discuss the boundaries and limits between master and slave. Are you down with biting, branding or candle wax? Simply choose an answer among Yes, No and Maybe. Even if you’ve already specified your kinks in your profile, it is best to go down to specifics. That way, when the action has gone from flaming to sizzling hot, nothing happens that is not within the rules.

Adult Chat Rooms

Similar to Adult FriendFinder, chat rooms in ALT.com are just as plenty and varied. It also follows a similar layout where you can choose a chat room based on location and interests. There are also Topical Rooms to choose from, with each one having a specific function. Some examples include:

Newbie Room – As the name suggests, it is the room for those who are still learning the ropes and lifestyle of BDSM. Share and get pointers from other members.

Pain Only Room – Give and take pain for as much as you can handle, or until you discover your breaking point. Don’t worry, words won’t hurt as much.

Dom/Me Room – Want to find out what other tricks Doms have up on their sleeves? This is the chat room to unleash your curiosity and thirst for more knowledge.

Sub Room – Talk to other Subs, share your needs and fantasies, and just feel safe knowing that you are with kindred spirits.

Master and Slave Room – “Submit or take control…”, the choice is entirely up to you. In this chat room, you can switch from one role to another and just explore both ends of the spectrum.

Extreme Room – From the name itself it’s easy to surmise what this chat room is for. So, if you feel like other chat rooms fall short in your craving for painful or erotic, this is the chat room to be.

Gorean Room – If you’re a fan of John Norman and his works, you would know exactly what goes on in this chat room. Sexual master-slave relationships, anyone?

You also have the option to find a Chatter by Username. Simply type it in the designated box. If you want to take conversations somewhere private, click on Get a Private Chat Room. Just be ready to shell out some cash.

Groups

Although ALT.com is designed to help you find a playmate, you can also find friends and be part of a group. Where like-minded individuals converge and start a conversation, fun and excitement are sure to follow. Considering that not a lot of people are open to discussing BDSM, being able to openly talk about it with other people is quite liberating.

Blogs

Want to know what other members feel and think about ALT.com? Check out blogs. Although you can always ask directly through chats, you wouldn’t want to waste your time discussing stuff unrelated to BDSM, right? Chat rooms should be reserved for hooking up. Besides, blogs provide more extensive details about the website itself and other details that could matter to you.

Forum

Want to find an answer to a question that has been bothering you? If it’s related to BDSM or ALT.com, join the forum and drop a line or two. Here, you can ask anything your heart desires and get an answer. This is also where members can help out one another.

Other features that you can access our webcam, IM system, videos, and shop.

As the only popular BDSM dating site, ALT.com is capitalizing on the situation by limiting features that a standard member can access. If you want to use 99% of what the site has to offer, you must subscribe to a paid membership. But because it is one of its kind, spending your money will be worth it. What is even better is that most members of ALT.com practice a different “culture” than other adult dating sites, in a sense that they first meet in public and socialize before taking things to the next level.

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