Casual sex is almost one of the mysteries that elude the general public… They would like to think that it doesn’t exist and that it is a taboo subject.
The reality is that finding casual sex has never been easier! Many single guys from the UK who are interested in this sort of thing rarely take a few minutes to search for the facts behind this touchy subject.
Thoughts like “are their really enough women that want this around?” “is this a dirty thing to be thinking about?” “should I not be faithful to one person?” arise and that’s the end of it.
The emergence of mainstream sexual promiscuity is among us and there is no going back. Those who wish to find singles near them for discreet nights of honest consensual sex can now do it with ease!
Women are becoming far more open about the concept of casual encounters… As we allow them to flourish and express their sexuality without blame jealously and disproval we will see a growth in the sexual expression of women online.
Both parties wanting similar things – men have to be aware that we need to provide a safe secure environment for women who are on the fence regarding casual encounters online.
If “everyone” is doing it and it’s not considered a taboo subject then the mainstream female population would be more interested. There is a huge number of girls and older women that do sign up to swinger sites but there is also a massive population that do not feel safe expressing themselves within the sites.
If a women feels preyed on or made example of she will leave and never come back. When all guys really want is more sexual expression we need to be aware of the environment we create as a result of our actions online.
Women love the idea that men are going to be so interested in their bodies…
Women love to feel the attention of thousands of guys and are happy to take pictures and set up safe offline dates with men they connect with.
You know what they want and what turns them on because you have just read their profile.
It’s simply a matter of finding the best website to do the trick.
It does exactly what it says – you sign up , pay and then search for singles near you that want exactly what you want… You can sign up as a couple or single and join group,private chat, or kinky groups which set up specific times to meet during the week or weekend.
This is not some sort of seedy corner of the internet but a place where REAL singles -accountants, road workers, teachers, nurses and bankers join and search for sex online.
You can also be apart of private video chat sessions and discreet emailing… This is a great way to get to know the person before you meet up.
Before joining and online casual dating site… a few considerations
What age you will be interested in contacting – there are many young girls online but the majority are interested meeting singles of similar age.
Or though the fantasy of casual encounters with younger women is strong I would suggest sticking to contacting women +- 10 years within in your age.
Apart from being respectful you will have much more success. There are many many women aged 30+ on casual sex sites online so you shouldn’t have to much trouble.
Women are attracted to openness and honesty – it’s normal and accepted that within casual dating sites you can post as an avatar (an imaginary you). You use a fake profile picture or a cartoon or anonymous shot of yourself and remain anonymous…
If you don’t feel comfortable with your face online yet then by all means stick with this avatar… You would use a made up username and keep it that way until you meet someone you like and let them know the real you (face book account)
You can stick with your real name real face from the start or edit your details once you feel comfortable. You will achieve MUCH more success by being open and honest from the start…
Women online want to see a face and attach it to a name. this way they feel connected to the person they are talking to.